［生活］巧舌如簧 by susanli3769

hive-105017 · @susanli3769 · Sep 17 '21

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［生活］巧舌如簧

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好羡慕那些巧舌如簧，口吐莲花的人，在什么场合都可以左右逢源。

今天在听收音机里的新闻，主持人在采访一位女议员。问到一个比较隐私的关于投票的问题。该女议员说了句：I love you, Jim! 意思马上被get 到。接着她说“如果到了答案揭晓的时候，我会第一时间告诉你的！”

很多美国人都很会small talk。随便遇到人，都可以毫不费劲地打开别人的话匣子，拿到自己想要的资料。个人的口舌相对比较笨。Hallway 的闲聊也不是非常在行。虽然也刻意注意加强，比之前有所进步，可是比起很多人来说，那真是相隔十万八千里。

某生是土生土长的美国人。他在这方面就比较厉害。是个非常不错的salesman! 即使不是非常懂的东西，都可以被他聊得天花乱坠。虽然深想过去，内容其实也没有什么深意和启发。可以，他往往可以很主动地引着话题谈话不断继续下去。有时候，让我好生羡慕。而我呢？即使是些我在行的话题，也无法聊出同样的深度，跟人的谈话往往也非常简单快速地结束。让人异常郁闷。

我团队里的一位新成员刚报告的第一天。我已经跟他讲了我自己当天会很忙，有很多会议无法给他太多时间。等我在忙的时候，我们合作的一位产品同事走过来跟那位新同事寒暄。并顺口问我是不是会把一些工作流程在当天告诉那位新同事。因为在忙，我非常简单快速地回复：I have no time for him today.“ 引得办公室里所有人哄堂大笑。 有人笑着说”you are such a bad ass, I like it”。

会说话，懂说话的人不管是生活还是工作中都往往更受人喜欢。讲话真是门艺术。遗憾爹娘没有给我生得一张好嘴，只能自己慢慢改进了…

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