I Tell You how to get over a breakup...Plz Must Be Read... by talhashafiq119

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breakup · @talhashafiq119 · Feb 8 '18

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I Tell You how to get over a breakup...Plz Must Be Read...

![How-To-Keep-Yourself-Busy-Productive-After-A-Devastating-Breakup-Mens-Axis.jpg](https://steemitimages.com/DQmSNyG1ztFiiSg72q5UT6AG4H7T4LmEZqWkLQQcduZpnRE/How-To-Keep-Yourself-Busy-Productive-After-A-Devastating-Breakup-Mens-Axis.jpg)
Getting over a breakup might seem impossible. It’s bad when you fall in love with someone you can’t have, but it’s even worse when your relationship doesn’t bring you anything good anymore and it makes you suffer.
![bkup1.jpg](https://steemitimages.com/DQmXsBMBvBs11ZDvUJhuQVPHnvhLoD8oByoan1ABgeMhuzP/bkup1.jpg)
This phenomenon is called “anchoring” (like the moment when you are listening to a song and it reminds you of a past event). When you’re trying to move on from someone, you will surely encounter a lot of anchors, but there is a solution to every problem.
![pp.jpg](https://steemitimages.com/DQmVEb9yAFkESAqwqZsybbZ95Ktuu65xLMSxiyKPLQTeNEG/pp.jpg)

![shariahrulingadulterer.jpg](https://steemitimages.com/DQmVKcUTUypwwzGdQxJSeBX9BqnpkQdQADJJHWNBBW3JQd8/shariahrulingadulterer.jpg)
Try to figure out why do you feel this need. Is it actually your low self-esteem caused by childhood problems? Is it your anxiety? Find the real problem and try to solve it. If you feel like you can’t do it, it’s okay to seek help.

Of course, a breakup comes with a lot of disappointments. To get over them you have to think of the future. Soon, this will be just a memory. What’s important is for you to become the best version of yourself. Find yourself a hobby, get into sports, take some time for yourself. When you’ll be proud of yourself and your accomplishments, disappointments will fade away.
![download.jpg](https://steemitimages.com/DQmdyWLGFSYbb2f8Q9UPVY5BL45BWYWBxphcJwJSY7HRkAX/download.jpg)
The last and most important step is acceptance. When you’ll realise that your relationship wasn’t going anywhere and that you have a beautiful, surprising life ahead, you’ll be healed.
![e5e5bfea9e164119bc809f7132321f618066af32.png](https://steemitimages.com/DQmQULDFRaxQHZmUntwzv3BhNoQrff4We67Bo8FBzj2VMU9/e5e5bfea9e164119bc809f7132321f618066af32.png)

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@richatvns · Feb 9 '18

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Hate to say it, but we all deal with it differently.....
![](https://steemitimages.com/DQmWNUGh42MhbXK7FGVJx1qTaa65NYuAFCeG31zKr492CxM/image.png)
And that's a problem...

Because we can get stuck depending on the level of commitment on both sides, time in the relationship and reasons for the separation.
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But I applaud your way of handling it....

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@talhashafiq119 · Feb 9 '18

Thank For Upvoting my post ..

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@sandalphon · Feb 8 '18

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Your post was selected to be included in my "Diamond in the Rough" series. It's goal is to promote high-quality posts made by new steemians (red fish and minnow) thereby helping them get the exposure they need to grow and thrive within the Steemitverse. You may check the related post [Diamonds in the Rough](https://steemit.com/pulitzer/@sandalphon/diamonds-in-the-rough-part-5) @sandalphon.

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@talhashafiq119 · Feb 9 '18

Thanx for Upvoting...

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