create account

Are you good looking enough to give advice? by tarazkp

View this thread on: hive.blogpeakd.comecency.com
· @tarazkp ·
$35.07
Are you good looking enough to give advice?
<div class="text-justify">


I am not much of a looker - perhaps a 6, but I tend to bat above my average.

However, in a conversation with colleagues today we were talking about domain creep, where having skill in one area has a halo effect on other skill areas, lending them credit where credit isn't due. We see this kind of proofing behavior for example with celebrities, where because someone is rich or famous for one thing, it means that they are qualified to be an authority on another. 

There are many aspects to this, where for example [tall people earn more,](https://www.livescience.com/5552-taller-people-earn-money.html) which explains why my salary is so low to the ground also. But it also enters into other areas, where there is a conflation of domain.

![image.png](https://images.hive.blog/DQmYmPVeHCWmUzEK1TFPMtfp6hNBK1MGtaCGUgK2gmmtBZ4/image.png)

When it comes to investing into crypto for example, for a very long time people have treated it as if it is in the technology domain. This has meant that when people have been curious about buying, they have asked the tech people they know, without realizing they have crossed boundaries into the domain of economics. While a person can hold both skillsets, they require understanding in different areas, where one doesn't necessarily inform the other. A person can have full understanding of how blockchains work, but very little insight into market potential. 

I mentioned that if for example, had I been a tech nerd espousing buying two years ago, they would likely have bought - but the people that they knew who were tech nerds, were at least openly, largely against it - because it is a meaningless asset, making it a scam. But, this view fails to recognize that pretty much all asset classes are meaningless scams, but this doesn't stop them from being valuable. People still buy gold on paper, believing they own gold. 

This domain creep is not only on the side of who we are influenced by, it tends to also creep into our own behaviors, where because we are good at something, we inflate our abilities in other areas. This can actually be a good thing if taken with a grain of salt, as it can help expand our awareness and skill to include new domains - but it can also be a negative, when we get overconfident to the point that we shutdown our attention under the assumption we know all we need. 

"Influencers" on social platforms are used to disseminate information to manipulate behavior in a certain direction, but the same thing happens in real life, where peers carry some weighting in our decision-making process. Is a pretty person funnier than a less attractive person? It seems that people favor some conditions over others, even though the content itself might be the same.

One example of this are those popular and very expensive "business forums" where people pay to hear influencers speak on various business topics. The goal of the celebrity is to get everyone feeling good, nodding and cheering with enthusiasm, which means presenting readily acceptable and generic material, that pretty much everyone in the room will support. If you think about knowledge as a competitive advantage, these are things that everyone already knows, with much of it being common sense. Yet, people pay so they can mingle with like minds who are also filled with generic information, for a social media post opportunity. Come Monday, very few will change their behaviors or processes at all.

We are often blinded by celebrity, as we associate fame and fortune with credibility and while this isn't necessarily a bad thing, often our support is misplaced. Also, often we are "greedy" in our beliefs, meaning we believe and act based on our desires, not necessarily reality. We laugh at the joke of the attractive person, because we want to be close to them - we buy the brands pushed by a celebrity, because we want to be like them. 

While information is just information, uptake or rejection is affected by the source of that information. This is about trust, and we are seemingly more likely to trust the face of a popular stranger, than those close to us, even if they are outside the domain they are informing on. Part of this could be that due to the public nature of the information, we make the assumption that it has been vetted, that it is accurate, that the person presenting has done their due diligence. I think often, they are doing the same thing, spreading what they have heard from someone they trust. 

But it is interesting how we are affected by the source and perhaps, more so than the information itself. At times, it is the person, the voice, the look, the delivery, the energy, the atmosphere that we make our purchase decision on, without actually paying much attention to what is being said, as we give meaning to meaningless attributes. 


No matter how good something looks, *the proof is in the pudding.*


Taraz
[ Gen1: Hive ]

</div>


Posted Using [LeoFinance <sup>Beta</sup>](https://leofinance.io/@tarazkp/are-you-good-looking-enough-to-give-advice)
👍  , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , and 430 others
👎  
properties (23)
authortarazkp
permlinkare-you-good-looking-enough-to-give-advice
categoryhive-167922
json_metadata{"app":"leofinance/0.2","format":"markdown","tags":["thoughts","investing","mindset","decisionmaking","society","psychology","leofinance"],"canonical_url":"https://leofinance.io/@tarazkp/are-you-good-looking-enough-to-give-advice","links":["https://www.livescience.com/5552-taller-people-earn-money.html"],"image":["https://images.hive.blog/DQmYmPVeHCWmUzEK1TFPMtfp6hNBK1MGtaCGUgK2gmmtBZ4/image.png"]}
created2021-02-10 14:16:27
last_update2021-02-10 14:16:27
depth0
children15
last_payout2021-02-17 14:16:27
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value21.534 HBD
curator_payout_value13.538 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length5,061
author_reputation5,834,125,651,463,544
root_title"Are you good looking enough to give advice?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id101,808,142
net_rshares84,087,420,667,617
author_curate_reward""
vote details (495)
@bozz ·
$0.12
I was actually just talking about this in the Discord server the other day when some new faces were coming to Leo and getting wild upvotes.  You can see it all over on Hive as well. If you have "the look" then you are going to get these crazy upvotes.  It sometimes makes these platforms feel no different than most of the other social media platforms out there.  When really a place like this should be all inclusive and not just reward the pretty people.  Of course I am probably considered closer to a 4, so I am likely just saying the things that ugly people say :)

Posted Using [LeoFinance <sup>Beta</sup>](https://leofinance.io/@bozz/re-tarazkp-68gcyq)
👍  ,
properties (23)
authorbozz
permlinkre-tarazkp-68gcyq
categoryhive-167922
json_metadata{"app":"leofinance/0.2","format":"markdown","tags":["hive-167922","leofinance"],"canonical_url":"https://leofinance.io/@bozz/re-tarazkp-68gcyq"}
created2021-02-10 15:43:42
last_update2021-02-10 15:43:42
depth1
children2
last_payout2021-02-17 15:43:42
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.058 HBD
curator_payout_value0.058 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length659
author_reputation2,227,293,401,178,033
root_title"Are you good looking enough to give advice?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id101,809,145
net_rshares417,951,951,761
author_curate_reward""
vote details (2)
@tarazkp ·
Yeah, there is room for that kind of upvoting too, but it doesn't lead to adoption unless they are pushing it out there. In the past, they tend to get lots of votes, but think they don't have to do anything with the platform, many just dropping posts and not engaging at all. 

>Of course I am probably considered closer to a 4, so I am likely just saying the things that ugly people say :)

Before we judge others - we need to look in the mirror at ourselves and understand .... *the world isn't fair.* :D

Posted Using [LeoFinance <sup>Beta</sup>](https://leofinance.io/@tarazkp/re-bozz-2woumc)
👍  
properties (23)
authortarazkp
permlinkre-bozz-2woumc
categoryhive-167922
json_metadata{"app":"leofinance/0.2","format":"markdown","tags":["hive-167922","leofinance"],"canonical_url":"https://leofinance.io/@tarazkp/re-bozz-2woumc"}
created2021-02-10 17:49:54
last_update2021-02-10 17:49:54
depth2
children1
last_payout2021-02-17 17:49:54
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length596
author_reputation5,834,125,651,463,544
root_title"Are you good looking enough to give advice?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id101,810,522
net_rshares6,501,556,905
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@bozz ·
Yes, engagement is very lose from those accounts.

Posted Using [LeoFinance <sup>Beta</sup>](https://leofinance.io/@bozz/re-tarazkp-pcg3z)
properties (22)
authorbozz
permlinkre-tarazkp-pcg3z
categoryhive-167922
json_metadata{"app":"leofinance/0.2","format":"markdown","tags":["hive-167922","leofinance"],"canonical_url":"https://leofinance.io/@bozz/re-tarazkp-pcg3z"}
created2021-02-10 20:08:06
last_update2021-02-10 20:08:06
depth3
children0
last_payout2021-02-17 20:08:06
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length138
author_reputation2,227,293,401,178,033
root_title"Are you good looking enough to give advice?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id101,812,368
net_rshares0
@creativemary ·
Looks isn't everything but people are biased. Unfortunately some things are deeply rooted in collective mentality that it's hard to go against the impulse. In crypto it definetely matters how smart you are. Looks are useless
properties (22)
authorcreativemary
permlinkqodjfi
categoryhive-167922
json_metadata{"app":"hiveblog/0.1"}
created2021-02-11 17:04:33
last_update2021-02-11 17:04:33
depth1
children0
last_payout2021-02-18 17:04:33
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length224
author_reputation536,786,550,221,302
root_title"Are you good looking enough to give advice?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id101,825,592
net_rshares0
@mattclarke ·
As someone who's been coasting by on their looks for decades this was all upside. 
Now I get told I'm mansplaining, and the asset has become a liability :)
properties (22)
authormattclarke
permlinkre-tarazkp-qobvr5
categoryhive-167922
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-167922"],"app":"peakd/2021.01.3"}
created2021-02-10 19:35:33
last_update2021-02-10 19:35:33
depth1
children0
last_payout2021-02-17 19:35:33
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length155
author_reputation127,109,115,295,840
root_title"Are you good looking enough to give advice?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id101,811,960
net_rshares0
@melbourneswest ·
$0.11
Oh you opened up a can of worms here. Politica is like this. It's referred to as identity politics. People will blindly follow the person that looks most like them. Apparently being able to be identifiable with others is a sure run equation for being elected. 

My wife 8 yrs ago told me no to bitcoin when it was a few cents. Her friends and people in her circle are talking about it and she asked me if I had any, I don't. She said have I thought about buying it. 

At current prices no, other coins are better for bigger gains. She says, why not out $50 in and see what happens. I explained that if I put $50 in at current prices it would take the coin doubling for me to make $100. 

Where I could make alot more off that 50 on a smaller asset. Had I put $50 in 8 years ago, we'd be retired and Millionaires. But she said no back then.....



Posted Using [LeoFinance <sup>Beta</sup>](https://leofinance.io/@melbourneswest/re-tarazkp-5kmbxn)
👍  
properties (23)
authormelbourneswest
permlinkre-tarazkp-5kmbxn
categoryhive-167922
json_metadata{"app":"leofinance/0.2","format":"markdown","tags":["thoughts","leofinance","hive-167922"],"canonical_url":"https://leofinance.io/@melbourneswest/re-tarazkp-5kmbxn"}
created2021-02-10 14:28:18
last_update2021-02-10 14:28:18
depth1
children1
last_payout2021-02-17 14:28:18
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.054 HBD
curator_payout_value0.054 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length945
author_reputation717,909,193,338,375
root_title"Are you good looking enough to give advice?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id101,808,292
net_rshares393,054,244,942
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@tarazkp ·
People love familiar, people love rubbing up to those they admire.

>My wife 8 yrs ago told me no to bitcoin when it was a few cents.

My wife said no at 5000 dollars last year too. I remind her of that ;)

Buying btc is either a volume game now, or a long hold game - I always look long - but I diversify - perhaps "too much" at times. 

Posted Using [LeoFinance <sup>Beta</sup>](https://leofinance.io/@tarazkp/re-melbourneswest-44i7ch)
properties (22)
authortarazkp
permlinkre-melbourneswest-44i7ch
categoryhive-167922
json_metadata{"app":"leofinance/0.2","format":"markdown","tags":["hive-167922","leofinance"],"canonical_url":"https://leofinance.io/@tarazkp/re-melbourneswest-44i7ch"}
created2021-02-10 14:42:45
last_update2021-02-10 14:42:45
depth2
children0
last_payout2021-02-17 14:42:45
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length437
author_reputation5,834,125,651,463,544
root_title"Are you good looking enough to give advice?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id101,808,445
net_rshares0
@nancybriti ·
$0.11
I agree with you on many of the aspects you touch on here. I have seen many people fall asleep at the laurels, just because they have more capabilities or knowledge than others. It happens to me with some students, that because they are intelligent they don't study and come out worse than those who although they are less intelligent, are disciplined and can study daily. I once had a boyfriend who was not so attractive but he was an extraordinary human being, humorous, kind, gentlemanly and very lucky with girls. I think that since he was a little boy he understood that if he wanted to have a girlfriend he had to develop other skills and exploit other virtues. We are not all good at everything!  Good Wednesday, @tarazkp
👍  
properties (23)
authornancybriti
permlinkqobhpw
categoryhive-167922
json_metadata{"users":["tarazkp"],"app":"hiveblog/0.1"}
created2021-02-10 14:33:54
last_update2021-02-10 14:33:54
depth1
children1
last_payout2021-02-17 14:33:54
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.054 HBD
curator_payout_value0.054 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length728
author_reputation145,660,215,183,421
root_title"Are you good looking enough to give advice?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id101,808,348
net_rshares392,588,218,126
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@tarazkp ·
>that because they are intelligent they don't study and come out worse than those who although they are less intelligent, are disciplined and can study daily.

Laziness is habit-forming and will appear in other aspects of life too. 

>I think that since he was a little boy he understood that if he wanted to have a girlfriend he had to develop other skills and exploit other virtues.

It requires self-awareness to identify competence and opportunity, and then the discipline to build and apply it. 

Posted Using [LeoFinance <sup>Beta</sup>](https://leofinance.io/@tarazkp/re-nancybriti-2wtgvx)
properties (22)
authortarazkp
permlinkre-nancybriti-2wtgvx
categoryhive-167922
json_metadata{"app":"leofinance/0.2","format":"markdown","tags":["hive-167922","leofinance"],"canonical_url":"https://leofinance.io/@tarazkp/re-nancybriti-2wtgvx"}
created2021-02-10 14:44:39
last_update2021-02-10 14:44:39
depth2
children0
last_payout2021-02-17 14:44:39
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length596
author_reputation5,834,125,651,463,544
root_title"Are you good looking enough to give advice?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id101,808,464
net_rshares0
@nonsowrites ·
$0.10
The antidote to cognitive bias is critical thinking, which in itself a difficult and time-consuming process and most people would rather go with things that align with their preconceived notion of things or rely on other people who have attained a certain status in society for answers.

Posted Using [LeoFinance <sup>Beta</sup>](https://leofinance.io/@nonsowrites/re-tarazkp-3t723q)
👍  
properties (23)
authornonsowrites
permlinkre-tarazkp-3t723q
categoryhive-167922
json_metadata{"app":"leofinance/0.2","format":"markdown","tags":["hive-167922","leofinance"],"canonical_url":"https://leofinance.io/@nonsowrites/re-tarazkp-3t723q"}
created2021-02-10 14:42:57
last_update2021-02-10 14:42:57
depth1
children1
last_payout2021-02-17 14:42:57
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.054 HBD
curator_payout_value0.049 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length383
author_reputation528,870,989,446,587
root_title"Are you good looking enough to give advice?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id101,808,447
net_rshares392,265,207,494
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@tarazkp ·
Yeah, critical thinking requires taking preference out, and just like a man at a bar talking with a pretty girl, the brain isn't always the part full of blood. We are social at our core, not cognitive.

Posted Using [LeoFinance <sup>Beta</sup>](https://leofinance.io/@tarazkp/re-nonsowrites-6zbtbj)
properties (22)
authortarazkp
permlinkre-nonsowrites-6zbtbj
categoryhive-167922
json_metadata{"app":"leofinance/0.2","format":"markdown","tags":["hive-167922","leofinance"],"canonical_url":"https://leofinance.io/@tarazkp/re-nonsowrites-6zbtbj"}
created2021-02-10 14:47:21
last_update2021-02-10 14:47:21
depth2
children0
last_payout2021-02-17 14:47:21
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length298
author_reputation5,834,125,651,463,544
root_title"Are you good looking enough to give advice?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id101,808,508
net_rshares0
@optimusre ·
Your post is reblogged and upvoted by me. It is a good post. Thank you @tarazkp
properties (22)
authoroptimusre
permlinkqobuix
categoryhive-167922
json_metadata{"users":["tarazkp"],"app":"hiveblog/0.1"}
created2021-02-10 19:09:00
last_update2021-02-10 19:09:00
depth1
children0
last_payout2021-02-17 19:09:00
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length79
author_reputation2,216,379,675,054
root_title"Are you good looking enough to give advice?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id101,811,537
net_rshares0
@ryivhnn ·
LoL nope XD (I'm nowhere near good looking enough to give advice)

I know a bit about domain creep through.  I'm a digital artist so apparently I "know about technology" and people ask me to help them fix their computers or phones and I'm like "I"m an artist..." and then don't really help myself as half the time the problems they're having are basic tech support issues that I can actually fix -_-

> we shutdown our attention under the assumption we know all we need

That sounds boring XD

Though exceptions made for when you need to apply brakes to something or you would never get anything done because there is always more to find out XD

> But it is interesting how we are affected by the source and perhaps, more so than the information itself

It's amusing watching what happens when it is someone that may actually know what they're talking about but you/people in general don't like/believe what they're saying.
properties (22)
authorryivhnn
permlinkre-tarazkp-qocs58
categoryhive-167922
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-167922"],"app":"peakd/2021.01.3"}
created2021-02-11 07:15:12
last_update2021-02-11 07:15:12
depth1
children0
last_payout2021-02-18 07:15:12
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length923
author_reputation207,820,972,323,429
root_title"Are you good looking enough to give advice?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id101,819,030
net_rshares0
@santigs ·
$0.12
This is what happens in many radio or TV debates, where sometimes intellectuals from any area give advice on things they have no knowledge about. But in the case of Bitcoin, I am afraid it would have been better to ask a blockchain expert than an economist, at least 8 years ago. Probably the tech expert would have suggested you to get some 😂
👍  ,
properties (23)
authorsantigs
permlinkre-tarazkp-qobkfk
categoryhive-167922
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-167922"],"app":"peakd/2021.01.3"}
created2021-02-10 15:31:36
last_update2021-02-10 15:31:36
depth1
children1
last_payout2021-02-17 15:31:36
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.058 HBD
curator_payout_value0.058 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length343
author_reputation140,188,596,902,353
root_title"Are you good looking enough to give advice?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id101,809,017
net_rshares418,428,140,218
author_curate_reward""
vote details (2)
@tarazkp ·
>But in the case of Bitcoin, I am afraid it would have been better to ask a blockchain expert than an economist, at least 8 years ago.

I agree, now it is a different story. 

>Probably the tech expert would have suggested you to get some

The problem is, that many do not update their information once they have looked into it. I still have tech experts handing me articles from 2016/17, because it suits their personal narrative. 

Posted Using [LeoFinance <sup>Beta</sup>](https://leofinance.io/@tarazkp/re-santigs-42j2hp)
properties (22)
authortarazkp
permlinkre-santigs-42j2hp
categoryhive-167922
json_metadata{"app":"leofinance/0.2","format":"markdown","tags":["hive-167922","leofinance"],"canonical_url":"https://leofinance.io/@tarazkp/re-santigs-42j2hp"}
created2021-02-10 17:46:54
last_update2021-02-10 17:46:54
depth2
children0
last_payout2021-02-17 17:46:54
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length525
author_reputation5,834,125,651,463,544
root_title"Are you good looking enough to give advice?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id101,810,480
net_rshares0