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That smallsteps is just about the cutest thing I know.  Thanks for some updated photographs.

I think the biggest mistake I see parents make is not letting children 'do it themselves'.  They want to teach them exactly right from the get go.  I think it's good to let them figure things out themselves as much as possible.  Floppy shoelaces soon become an impediment and the kid will at least tuck them in :)

I had an evaluation between 3 and 4 because my parents wanted to adopt another child and we all had to be tested.  They got to watch mine through a one way mirror arrangement.  I was answering questions just fine til the woman asked me what my shoes were made of.  I said 'I don't know'.  She tried to encourage me to think of it so I took off a shoe and asked her what it was made of.  I passed apparently (the case worker helped my folks adopt 4 children.  She became a long time friend of the family.)

She came to visit at the farm house to be sure everything was OK.  She and mom were chatting and I got bored and wandered outside.  Half an hour later they realized I wasn't right there and came looking.  I was curled up in the dog house with the collie.  Naked.  Mom asked me why I didn't have clothes on and I told her Prince never wore clothes in his house.  The case worker reminded me of that for years!

I'm sure smallsteps will be fine.  No doubt in my mind.

Firstly, i must say you've a pretty daughter.

Raising a child is not easy whenever I think of it.
You do not want them going astray and you hope when they are grown they make the right choices.
In my view of it, I don't think school assessment should not be the overall basis to assess a child's growth.
Some are fast with learning,
While some others are slow but eventually we all grow and that's how life is too
Most kids who stutter at their infant ages sometimes grow to become greatest speakers and orators of all time.
I think what should receive more attention is teaching a child how to 
**Communicate effectively**
**Building lasting relationship**
**The importance of communities so that we can grow**

I once read about a young man who had it all in life, easy going and successful all the time.
He wasn't trained to handle failures of life and on the first depressing moment he had he committed suicide.
So I feel as we develop school related skills, social skills should be involved too.

I think the most important aspect of attention comes down to ***what*** are you paying attention to? Knowing on what to focus is the key. Overall attention is good, but focusing is better. I guess parenting is the most difficult job in the world as it requires to be salient in so many areas, from emotional, to psychological, tech and so on.

I'd absolutely coach for the test. You never know when a change of policy means children 'failing to thrive' in their home environment are subject to extra assessment, enforcement and potentially even removal from the home. The state isn't a service provider and that social worker is not your friend. 

Prepping a kid to pass a developmental check sounds stupid -_-

And what you're saying is making me wonder if they're still clinging to embarrassingly archaic information about speech/learning development in multilingual children.

I remember when our son was a child. Due to work, we took him to kindergarten very early, when he was 4 months only. It was tough for us to live thim there so early but he developed as any other of his friends, later on, even those who just joined school when they were 4 or 5 years old.
Those days, we were very concerned as he was learning new things and developing, he is not taking his nap while others do, he is not walking yet, he is not starting to talk.... you know what I mean.
We used to go to the checks every month initially and then every 6 months and finally yearly. My wife had a very busy job back then and many times I had to take him to the checks myself alone. I remember one of the visits to the doctor, it was a very nice lady and when I showed her my fears about him growing slowly on this or that skill, she told me. Listen, at 5 years of age, they all walk, later, they all talk. Every kid is different but at the end of the day, they all become adults, so just relax and enjoy his growing.
If he eats and is happy, everythibng will be fine.
That was a great lesson.