create account

Child Electric by tarazkp

View this thread on: hive.blogpeakd.comecency.com
· @tarazkp ·
$32.75
Child Electric
<div class="text-justify">

A friend dropped by on his way through on a work trip for a coffee and a chat, as well as exchange family gifts for Christmas, as is our custom over the last fifteen or twenty years. 

>He looked tired.

We all do I guess. The end of the year is pretty hectic and this is especially true for people in corporate finance departments like he is. However, he is done for the year now, so can take a break until 2024. I still have a couple days to go.

![image.png](https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/tarazkp/245J1hZN51oFmDH8FnvmUcT1yac9p1gKZ65ftPckT3M1DoWUbpR42VLmcKkgsTpnX2nm4.png)

Our discussion shifted to our kids, education and health in general. He works for a global pharmaceutical company and has taken an interest in some of the products they sell and why, and this led into a discussion about eye problems in children from staring at screens.  Which also tied into an article I was reading today about how Finland is slipping heavily in the PISA education rankings, with many citing smartphones as part of the problem. 

>But it is only a part. 

My friends wife is a teacher and another part of the problem is that "special needs" children are mixed into her class, meaning that 80% of her time is spent with 20% of the children, who aren't even interested in learning. At least, not learning in that type of environment. This has been a big shift in the classrooms over the last few decades under the umbrella of "inclusion" without considering who gets *excluded* because of it.

For instance, my daughter came home the other day and said to my wife, how her music teacher says she is great and asked, "do you know why?". My wife said it was because she enjoys music, likes to sing, has rhythm... and my daughter said, "No. It is because I am the only one who listens and cares. Everyone else just runs around screaming."

>A seven year old. 

*She is being excluded.*

Obviously, this is the education system now and most people don't care that much, because it is inconvenient to care. Truly recognizing poor conditions means having to do something about them, and most people aren't actually willing. It is far easier to use a phone to keep kids entertained in a shopping trolley or in a restaurant, than actually include them into life, into conversation, into learning how to interact with others. 

How can we think children should pay attention in a school, when the only thing they have been taught to pay attention to is a screen that they watch as it feeds them nothing of importance? That screen is consumed passively, and other than be quiet and not interrupt the parents, nothing is expected from the child at all.

> "On the life of my children"

*On the happiness of children.*

That is what so many parents are gambling on, as they take a "do as you please" approach to raising their kids. Say what you want, do what you want, eat what you want, listen when you want.

> Freedom.

Do you think those living in poverty feel free? How about the morbidly obese? What does freedom look like when since childhood, a person has been raised to abuse their mind, body and spirit? What does it feel like when all those promises of childhood are rapidly eaten up by the reality of the world? A reality they were never introduced to, and for which they were never prepared. Staring into the screens, getting all that positive feedback from illusory characters designed to keep them watching, to make them feel good, or bad as the case may be. 

We don't know what the future holds. We don't know which technology or skills will be the most valuable in the future. But, we do have a pretty good idea of what a human needs to have a satisfactory life. Yet, we keep finding ways to avoid teaching it and insulating our children from being exposed to the conditions to learn it for themselves. 

>What are we willing to risk for our children?

*Not our convenience.* 

At some point, "it'll be alright" is just not going to cut it.

Will you tell them, or should I?

Taraz
[ Gen1: Hive ]



</div>
πŸ‘  , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , and 375 others
properties (23)
authortarazkp
permlinkchild-electric
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"app":"peakd/2023.11.3","format":"markdown","tags":["philosophy","psychology","mindset","family","health","reflect","parenting","education","rant"],"users":[],"image":["https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/tarazkp/245J1hZN51oFmDH8FnvmUcT1yac9p1gKZ65ftPckT3M1DoWUbpR42VLmcKkgsTpnX2nm4.png"]}
created2023-12-18 21:21:18
last_update2023-12-18 21:21:18
depth0
children25
last_payout2023-12-25 21:21:18
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value16.416 HBD
curator_payout_value16.336 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length4,042
author_reputation4,749,522,792,820,983
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,776,139
net_rshares68,902,092,886,834
author_curate_reward""
vote details (439)
@bozz ·
$0.10
Yup don't think the special needs kids deserve to learn too? Why should they get lesser opportunities than other kids? I'm kidding of course, the whole inclusion thing is something that many teachers deal with. Mainly because they are forcing it without a plan or the supports in place to actually make it successful. I remember when I was in school you rarely ever saw the special ed kids.
πŸ‘  
properties (23)
authorbozz
permlinkre-tarazkp-20231218t20286757z
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"type":"comment","tags":["hive-126152","philosophy","psychology","mindset","family","health","reflect","parenting","education","rant"],"app":"ecency/3.0.44-mobile","format":"markdown+html"}
created2023-12-19 01:28:06
last_update2023-12-19 01:28:06
depth1
children2
last_payout2023-12-26 01:28:06
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.051 HBD
curator_payout_value0.051 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length390
author_reputation1,484,761,541,262,372
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,780,443
net_rshares217,324,190,202
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@tarazkp ·
$0.04
> Yup don't think the special needs kids deserve to learn too?

Lock them in the attic!

They are being failed too. They aren't getting the support they need either, so everyone is getting excluded. 
πŸ‘  ,
properties (23)
authortarazkp
permlinkre-bozz-s5wnor
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-126152"],"app":"peakd/2023.11.3"}
created2023-12-19 08:31:45
last_update2023-12-19 08:31:45
depth2
children1
last_payout2023-12-26 08:31:45
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.019 HBD
curator_payout_value0.019 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length199
author_reputation4,749,522,792,820,983
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,786,665
net_rshares84,321,275,597
author_curate_reward""
vote details (2)
@bozz ·
I wholly agree with you there.  It seems like each year keeps getting rougher for my wife.  
properties (22)
authorbozz
permlinkre-tarazkp-s5x09n
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-126152"],"app":"peakd/2023.11.3"}
created2023-12-19 13:03:24
last_update2023-12-19 13:03:24
depth3
children0
last_payout2023-12-26 13:03:24
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length92
author_reputation1,484,761,541,262,372
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,791,865
net_rshares0
@chireerocks ·
Gadgets are easy way out, and giving a space to stay entertained, but at the end of the day when reality hits hard, answers becomes complicated because we chose a lifestyle which cutoff us from the intuitively natural life.
properties (22)
authorchireerocks
permlinkre-tarazkp-20231219t15103425z
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"tags":["philosophy","psychology","mindset","family","health","reflect","parenting","education","rant"],"app":"ecency/3.0.37-vision","format":"markdown+html"}
created2023-12-19 09:40:03
last_update2023-12-19 09:40:03
depth1
children0
last_payout2023-12-26 09:40:03
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length223
author_reputation325,160,776,559,310
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,787,835
net_rshares0
@cmplxty ·
$0.10
It’s horrible but people are in for a fucking RUDE awakening in about 15 years when this generation right now is completely inept and incapable of many things basic humans can do. It’s going to be very difficult and at the same time it’s also going to be a great opportunity for those that are competent and capable of doing what we right now consider basic shit. 

I’m more pleased that we took away the iPad from our son than ever. His mood has improved, attention, play and all that. He’s thankfully not been a little zombie like many other kids but we saw negative changes in him and took a bit of doing but we got him away from that damn thing. Now he’s far better at occupying himself when need be with Lego, digging in a container of dirt and stuff. Normal boy things. A sigh of relief for sure lol. 

I’m glad that your daughter is one of the competent ones! Oi vey
πŸ‘  
properties (23)
authorcmplxty
permlinkre-tarazkp-s5w5x8
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-126152"],"app":"peakd/2023.11.3"}
created2023-12-19 02:07:57
last_update2023-12-19 02:07:57
depth1
children1
last_payout2023-12-26 02:07:57
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.051 HBD
curator_payout_value0.052 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length873
author_reputation562,784,733,936,004
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,781,001
net_rshares217,629,557,046
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@tarazkp ·
>It’s horrible but people are in for a fucking RUDE awakening in about 15 years when this generation right now is completely inept and incapable of many things basic humans can do

I believe so. Perhaps society will adjust to accommodate - but what does that society look like?

I am glad we never got into screens at all for Smallsteps. She watches some shows on the weekends now, but it is for an hour two max. 
properties (22)
authortarazkp
permlinkre-cmplxty-s5woo7
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-126152"],"app":"peakd/2023.11.3"}
created2023-12-19 08:53:03
last_update2023-12-19 08:53:03
depth2
children0
last_payout2023-12-26 08:53:03
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length413
author_reputation4,749,522,792,820,983
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,787,041
net_rshares0
@devpress ·
> Do you think those living in poverty feel free?

This is one of the reasons whenever I meet socialist, communist,  I laugh it on the utopia of theirs they survive on capitalism but want the freedom. I find kill the govt kill the banks narrative flawed too. Who is going to clean the road if the local level govt is killed too. Killing democracy leads to tyrany. And we have examples around the world.
properties (22)
authordevpress
permlinks5wqhb
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"app":"hiveblog/0.1"}
created2023-12-19 09:32:00
last_update2023-12-19 09:32:00
depth1
children0
last_payout2023-12-26 09:32:00
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length402
author_reputation55,061,325,071,240
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,787,699
net_rshares0
@ducecrypto ·
As an uncle, I'm staying out of it! What I can tell you from the classroom with my first-hand experience is that students are seemingly less curious and more apprehensive to ask questions. It is a sad state of affairs, because as you rightly said, too many students are being included to the detriment of the most invested and caring students. All in the name of equality I guess. But we are lacking equity, not equality, and equality does not look the same for students of varied needs.
properties (22)
authorducecrypto
permlinkre-tarazkp-s5yxxf
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-126152"],"app":"peakd/2023.11.3"}
created2023-12-20 14:08:03
last_update2023-12-20 14:08:03
depth1
children0
last_payout2023-12-27 14:08:03
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length487
author_reputation43,756,772,874,482
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,821,856
net_rshares0
@heruvim1978 ·
$0.12
I noticed this looking at my brother's kids and my cousin's girls. My nephews are stuck to the screen, which ended up with them learning more and quite intelligent, but my cousin has a no screen policy for the first years of life, and his girls are emotionally intelligent and quite mature for their age. So, in the short version, screen = more learning and intellectual intelligence - IQ, no screen = more EQ. Later in life, it is the EQ that matters, to achieve a happy, fulfilled life. But IQ means more money long term. Where do you draw the line?
πŸ‘  
properties (23)
authorheruvim1978
permlinks5vvt6
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"app":"hiveblog/0.1"}
created2023-12-18 22:29:30
last_update2023-12-18 22:29:30
depth1
children4
last_payout2023-12-25 22:29:30
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.060 HBD
curator_payout_value0.061 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length551
author_reputation60,939,394,060,747
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,777,416
net_rshares256,562,479,813
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@ryivhnn ·
$0.10
I had no screen restrictions for my kids at all from a very young age and was constantly getting told by other people (who were mostly stunned that they could hold an extended conversation with an adult, again from quite young 🀣) that they were very intelligent and emotionally mature for their age. 

I'm pretty sure there's a lot of nature that goes into that along with the nurturing. 

Are the kids in question still pretty young? They might just take a bit to figure out self regulation. My kids went from not being that interested to being too interested to now being very good at managing themselves and balancing on screen activities with plenty of offscreen ones. 
πŸ‘  
properties (23)
authorryivhnn
permlinkre-heruvim1978-s5wbto
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-126152"],"app":"peakd/2023.11.3"}
created2023-12-19 04:15:24
last_update2023-12-19 04:15:24
depth2
children2
last_payout2023-12-26 04:15:24
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.052 HBD
curator_payout_value0.052 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length673
author_reputation166,645,632,100,050
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,782,958
net_rshares217,671,936,423
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@tarazkp ·
I do think there is a lot of nature in there too, but I also wonder if this has changed in the last decade and a half, where parents now have also been raised on screens. Perhaps it also has an effect?

>Are the kids in question still pretty young? They might just take a bit to figure out self regulation. 

Yes. all under 10 - my question is what happens with self-regulation, considering that if you look at the shift in obesity over the last 50 years, we aren't very good at self-regulating. 
properties (22)
authortarazkp
permlinkre-ryivhnn-s5wnme
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-126152"],"app":"peakd/2023.11.3"}
created2023-12-19 08:30:24
last_update2023-12-19 08:30:24
depth3
children1
last_payout2023-12-26 08:30:24
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length496
author_reputation4,749,522,792,820,983
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,786,642
net_rshares0
@tarazkp ·
I am not sure that it adds to IQ, rather than it fills the brain with information that can be regurgitated. Kids *seem* smart because they can repeat things they have heard, but that is the skill of kids - they are sponges. However, when it comes to putting that into practice, it is a different matter. 

I see that in childhood we get the chance to practice things, which means being active, not passive. Thinking we can, doesn't mean we can. The screens teach trivia, not application, and very few consumers will ever actually apply what they have learned. 

My daughter for example doesn't know a lot of trivia, but she understands complex concepts and can discuss them, adding insight, and brings in real world examples from her life. It isn't genetic, it is just how we interact with her. She is included in conversations when we are eating, at the shops, driving along to the city. We spend time actually seeing each other's faces. I think it makes a difference in how we are able to judge situations later in life too. Many kids barely see a face directly these days. 

I was listening to a podcast the other day about complicated problems and complex problems. Complicated problems can be difficult to solve, but once they are solved, the solution can be replicated easily. Complex problems are those that have many variables that keep changing and shifting, and are impossible to solve perfectly. 

The IQ of humans is complicated. A fulfilled life is complex.

AI is already better at many things than the average human, and string multiple narrow AIs together, and most humans can't compete at all. They aren't very good company in bed though, and they don't give a nice massage. They also don't feel joy when we make them laugh. 

If our IQ can be replaced, what value can we bring to the table of humanity?
properties (22)
authortarazkp
permlinkre-heruvim1978-s5vwhd
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-126152"],"app":"peakd/2023.11.3"}
created2023-12-18 22:44:03
last_update2023-12-18 22:44:03
depth2
children0
last_payout2023-12-25 22:44:03
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length1,820
author_reputation4,749,522,792,820,983
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,777,796
net_rshares0
@heruvim1978 ·
I noticed this looking at my brother's kids and my cousin's girls. My nephews are stuck to the screen, which ended up with them learning more and quite intelligent, but my cousin has a no screen policy for the first years of life, and his girls are emotionally intelligent and quite mature for their age. So, in the short version, screen = more learning and intellectual intelligence - IQ, no screen = more EQ. Later in life, it is the EQ that matters, to achieve a happy, fulfilled life. But IQ means more money long term. Where do you draw the line?
properties (22)
authorheruvim1978
permlinks5vvtb
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"app":"hiveblog/0.1"}
created2023-12-18 22:29:33
last_update2023-12-18 22:29:33
depth1
children0
last_payout2023-12-25 22:29:33
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length551
author_reputation60,939,394,060,747
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,777,418
net_rshares0
@hivebuzz ·
Congratulations @tarazkp! You have completed the following achievement on the Hive blockchain And have been rewarded with New badge(s)

<table><tr><td><img src="https://images.hive.blog/60x60/http://hivebuzz.me/badges/postallweek.png"></td><td>You have been a buzzy bee and published a post every day of the week.</td></tr>
</table>

<sub>_You can view your badges on [your board](https://hivebuzz.me/@tarazkp) and compare yourself to others in the [Ranking](https://hivebuzz.me/ranking)_</sub>
<sub>_If you no longer want to receive notifications, reply to this comment with the word_ `STOP`</sub>

properties (22)
authorhivebuzz
permlinknotify-tarazkp-20231218t213945
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"image":["http://hivebuzz.me/notify.t6.png"]}
created2023-12-18 21:39:45
last_update2023-12-18 21:39:45
depth1
children0
last_payout2023-12-25 21:39:45
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length600
author_reputation367,967,710,900,820
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,776,514
net_rshares0
@ibcabrera ·
Excellent reflection! I read this educational reality and it is very similar to ours in Cuba. There is a tendency to excessive use of cell phones in children of different ages, something that is often uncontrolled. 
Developing the educational process at school, where the interaction with new technologies is taken into account, is a complex issue and teachers in many cases do not know how to deal with it. 
On the other hand, many families are more concerned with entertaining their children than developing actions to educate them. 
Thank you for sharing. Regards 
properties (22)
authoribcabrera
permlinkre-tarazkp-s5y7lt
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-126152"],"app":"peakd/2023.11.3"}
created2023-12-20 04:39:00
last_update2023-12-20 04:39:00
depth1
children0
last_payout2023-12-27 04:39:00
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length567
author_reputation16,455,321,992,022
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,808,458
net_rshares0
@mule-farms ·
$0.10
Please go ahead and tell them!!!

It makes sad reading. Knowing the truth in it and that a lot of parents have adopted these passive methods of raising children with technology and call it being modern. My fear is how worse, it will become when home aid tools curried out by A.I are finally rolled out for home use.
πŸ‘  
properties (23)
authormule-farms
permlinks5vtxz
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"app":"hiveblog/0.1"}
created2023-12-18 21:49:12
last_update2023-12-18 21:49:12
depth1
children1
last_payout2023-12-25 21:49:12
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.049 HBD
curator_payout_value0.049 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length315
author_reputation832,657,395,302
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,776,695
net_rshares209,468,292,429
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@tarazkp ·
It is going to get far, far worse. I am hoping that my daughter will have children, and I can spend a lot of time with them in the real world. 
properties (22)
authortarazkp
permlinkre-mule-farms-s5vwiq
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-126152"],"app":"peakd/2023.11.3"}
created2023-12-18 22:44:51
last_update2023-12-18 22:44:51
depth2
children0
last_payout2023-12-25 22:44:51
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length143
author_reputation4,749,522,792,820,983
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,777,814
net_rshares0
@outwars ·
$0.10
It is very curious why special needs children are mixed in to regular classes. It isn't about inclusion, it is what's best for all. The current system is already bad since all kids have different learning speed and the teacher needs to adjust. Adding special needs really skews the learning speed difference. Not only do those kids need individual attention, but a regular class is not conducive for learning for them. 

Those parents that use tablets to silence their kids or keep them occupied need to grow up. They decided to have kids, so they need to do the effort of making them grow up to be decent people.
πŸ‘  
properties (23)
authoroutwars
permlinkre-tarazkp-s5wifb
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-126152"],"app":"peakd/2023.11.3"}
created2023-12-19 06:38:00
last_update2023-12-19 06:38:00
depth1
children1
last_payout2023-12-26 06:38:00
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.050 HBD
curator_payout_value0.050 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length613
author_reputation167,920,439,927,901
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,785,068
net_rshares217,484,984,467
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@tarazkp ·
>Not only do those kids need individual attention, but a regular class is not conducive for learning for them.

Exactly. It fails all the kids. 

>They decided to have kids, so they need to do the effort of making them grow up to be decent people.

This is ow I see it. "be a parent".
properties (22)
authortarazkp
permlinkre-outwars-s5wpks
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-126152"],"app":"peakd/2023.11.3"}
created2023-12-19 09:12:36
last_update2023-12-19 09:12:36
depth2
children0
last_payout2023-12-26 09:12:36
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length284
author_reputation4,749,522,792,820,983
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,787,397
net_rshares0
@rafzat ·
Most kids now enjoy to stay on the screen for hours and most things they watch are not of any benefit to them. Sometimes I ask myself questions if that is the world we find ourselves in or what exactly?
properties (22)
authorrafzat
permlinkre-tarazkp-20231219t10482205z
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"type":"comment","tags":["hive-126152","philosophy","psychology","mindset","family","health","reflect","parenting","education","rant"],"app":"ecency/3.0.44-mobile","format":"markdown+html"}
created2023-12-19 09:48:03
last_update2023-12-19 09:48:03
depth1
children0
last_payout2023-12-26 09:48:03
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length202
author_reputation116,870,535,413,322
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,787,961
net_rshares0
@ryivhnn ·
$0.88
I feel like this has at least some at least tangential relationship with another topic of parents infantilising their kids pretty much indefinitely which I think we’ve danced around before but I don’t know if you’ve posted about. 
πŸ‘  , , ,
properties (23)
authorryivhnn
permlinkre-tarazkp-s5wby8
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-126152"],"app":"peakd/2023.11.3"}
created2023-12-19 04:18:09
last_update2023-12-19 04:18:09
depth1
children2
last_payout2023-12-26 04:18:09
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.438 HBD
curator_payout_value0.438 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length230
author_reputation166,645,632,100,050
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,782,995
net_rshares1,824,104,157,712
author_curate_reward""
vote details (4)
@tarazkp ·
For sure. Kids are more capable than we think they are, but also less capable in some ways than we think they are. I don't think they are as capable at self-regulation! :D
properties (22)
authortarazkp
permlinkre-ryivhnn-s5wphi
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-126152"],"app":"peakd/2023.11.3"}
created2023-12-19 09:10:39
last_update2023-12-19 09:10:39
depth2
children1
last_payout2023-12-26 09:10:39
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length171
author_reputation4,749,522,792,820,983
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,787,374
net_rshares0
@ryivhnn ·
Well they gotta learn somehow and it's very hard to learn when things are constantly being done for you because you don't know how to or you don't get the opportunity to practise! XD

Which reminds me of someone I knew from my uni days who was relentlessly coddled by their parents and they were well aware of this fact and that was the reason why they knew almost nothing about adulting when they moved out, but appareently conversations with the parents regarding that didn't change their behaviour in the slightest (coddling continued when they went home and things were done for them when they asked to be taught how).  The ones that aren't that self aware are going to be in for a something.
properties (22)
authorryivhnn
permlinkre-tarazkp-s5wv6z
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-126152"],"app":"peakd/2023.11.3"}
created2023-12-19 11:13:48
last_update2023-12-19 11:13:48
depth3
children0
last_payout2023-12-26 11:13:48
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length696
author_reputation166,645,632,100,050
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,789,506
net_rshares0
@videoaddiction ·
Just watched a video about Finland. Seems it is a happy country, but there high depression and mental ilness rate. First reason is lack of sunlight in winter in the long winter.
properties (22)
authorvideoaddiction
permlinkre-tarazkp-20231219t114737734z
categoryhive-126152
json_metadata{"type":"comment","tags":["hive-126152","philosophy","psychology","mindset","family","health","reflect","parenting","education","rant"],"app":"ecency/3.0.44-mobile","format":"markdown+html"}
created2023-12-19 08:47:39
last_update2023-12-19 08:47:39
depth1
children0
last_payout2023-12-26 08:47:39
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length177
author_reputation125,103,927,317,387
root_title"Child Electric"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id129,786,922
net_rshares0