Are you suggesting that “we must adapt” to deal with what we cannot control? That our mental health will depend on this adaptation? What does the relationship **immediacy⇋patients** combine for new forms of monetization? Well, we live in fast times, we all want to have the exclusive.

I remember when I had my first Kenbak-1 (1975) and the time I spent loading the MS-DOS program. Today, with an IMAC III, the charging time is one thousandth of the Kenbak-1. I've certainly adapted to it and wouldn't change the response time of the IMAC III; never go back.

Every business looks for the best ways to generate profits with a minimum investment. You do it in your job, if you didn't generate those profits, you would surely have undertaken another activity.

**We adapt⇋resilience, or we will remain as antiques, forgotten in a museum…**

My wife and I started getting our groceries delivered during Covid and now that we could go shopping again we have just decided not to.  I want to say it doesn't have anything to do with patience or wanting something on demand, but really it just boils down to the fact that people are morons these days.  They are completely self absorbed and have zero situational awareness.  Quite honestly, my time is more important than dodging people down an aisle who are either focused solely on their phone or in their own little world having a conversation with someone over the phone.  On the occasion that their ambivalence causes them to run into you, you get a dirty look like it was your fault.  I'll pass thanks. 

>I was talking with a friend today about patience and how little we have these days because of on-demand services for everything. 

I have plenty patience when it comes to my art. It is a shame that I have little patience for anything else...

As I used to teach the little ones: Sometimes in life, despite giving your best try and effort, you still lose. You need to learn from this experience and become even better.

Each is able to develop something good for themselves by trial and error, _where all benefit, tailor, baker, farmer etc._ Once a week visit to local stores enjoy chatting to folk, listening to their views or problems being faced.

Ability to think for ourselves, is being stripped down by false promise of things being 'easier' with technology. Blame is always laid at the feet of another, sign of poor self-management skills.

'Oh so lonely bad behaviour', created by not getting out when able, learning more,  making human contact, discussing possible solutions, attitudes have changed with an 'I know everything' approach.

Really miss the days when we were younger, sat discussing many facets of life, trials and tribulations we were living with during that period.

> It is impressive how humans can justify bad behavior, because it is easier.

My cousin was enrolled in a gym to improve his health and physical appearance. 
He quit after a week. He said it was hard and he can’t follow the workout diets. 
I told him:
“It’s a new lifestyle, you will adjust to it eventually. Its for your own good, be patient and consistent.” Seems that was too much to ask. What is more, there are people that tell him he should take pride in his appearance. 

It’s sad. We learn slowly? No, we don’t learn at all. 

I think it is because people seek comfort, and the easy way all the time. This has usually led to a lot of advancements in technology. Going to the prehistoric days, it can be the knowledge of farming and agriculture, so they didn't have to rely on hunting all the time. Or the invention of the wheel. The people of today barely send hand written mail today, or walk/run/bike 5k to work.

That is what we are still seeing today. Why lose concentration at work to get food, when they can have it delivered. I'm not saying it's good, but that is just how people are wired. 

It is just sad that no matter how some people try, they still lose. Do you think there may be a good day or hope for them and they can win? 
Is it possible for someone to keep trying something for the rest of his life and still not win?

>so many people have bought into the convenient idea of showing them, regardless of whether they are valid, or regardless of whether their emotional outbursts affect others.

A lot of people **do** really think that it's better to **show emotions** than control them. I'm not saying that it isn't okay to show them... It's just that one should know how to control showing it so that it will not end like a violent emotional outburst. Me and my sister often have fights on that topic because she thinks that controlling emotions is repressing them; in fact, I **didn't suggest** repressing them, rather it's just she needs to learn controlling them. She's emotionally volatile these days, and I really tried to understand her because I've been through that phase. I'm constantly reminding her to control her emotions and not let them control her because her negative emotions are really strong and contagious. Personally, as much as possible, I try to control how I absorb and react to these emotions because I know they will really matter and make a difference. 

Wow, I totally relate to this bruv😳🫡🫡🫡💯. Sometimes, things just pile up on me like crazy, and it feels like I can't handle anything. It's comforting to know others go through it too and it's normal 🙈. Thanks for sharing your experience. Brother.. wishing the best for you bro

Today I was in my garden for 10 hours and didn’t look at the Internet. I cut the grass, picked onions and other greens. I rested and did my work slowly and was a joy. It’s evening now and I’m reading the Hive feed, today I don’t need any other information, I want to sleep, I’m just happy :)

What a great reflection... I can relate so much with your reflection exercise! 

> The loneliness is because there aren't any suitable people we want, not because we are not a suitable person.

Many times I consider myself half broken, 'cause I feel like I like a alien type of person... heading for trying to "see" things differently. 

Thankfully, I'm more the type of the ones that blame himself for being unable to accept how things occur, and for many times being incapable of seeing the bright side of situations.

But one thing is for sure, I'm not in the "rush mode" of having the absolute need of having everything on demand at the moment ;)