>I feel that a lot of the relationship work is forgotten in the younger generations as there is the sense that the relationships are cheap and easy to find. Why fix something up when there is something new around the corner? We have made ourselves disposable.

I've noticed this too with the _yout_... if it gets hard it seems easy for them to move on.. I go with the diamond theory.. let the pressure crush that carbon into the hardest thing imaginable!

Honestly though, sounds like you got it worked out..

There are times for this and times for that. The time for your trip will come when it's time for it.

Sometimes, you Carpe the Diem. Sometimes, the Diem Carpes you.

Dream Theater — "Take the Time"

> Hold it now, wait a minute
Come on, just let me catch my breath
I've heard the promises, I've seen the mistakes
I've had my fair share of tough breaks

> I need a new voice, new law, new way
Take the time, reevaluate
It's time to pick up the pieces, go back to square one
I think it's time for a change

> There is something that I feel
To be something that is real
I feel the heat within my mind
And craft new changes with my eyes

> Giving freely, wandering promises
A place with decisions, I'll fashion
I won't waste another breath

> You can feel the waves coming on
(It's time to take the time)
Let them destroy you or carry you on
(It's time to take the time)

> You're fighting the weight of the world
But no one can save you this time
Close your eyes
You can find all you need in your mind

> Unbroken spirit, obscured and disquiet
Finds clearness this trial demands
And at the end of this day sighs an anxious relief
For the fortune lies still in his hands

> If there's a pensive fear, a wasted year
A man must learn to cope
If his obsession's real
Suppression that he feels must turn to hope

> Life is no more assuring than love
(It's time to take the time)
There are no answers from voices above
(It's time to take the time)

> You're fighting the weight of the world
And no one can save you this time
Close your eyes
You can find all you need in your mind

> I close my eyes
And feel the water rise around me
Drown the beat of time
Let my senses fall away
I can see much clearer now, I'm blind
(Ora che ho perso la vista, ci vedo di piu)

> You can feel the waves coming on
(It's time to take the time)
Let them destroy you or carry you on
(It's time to take the time)

> You're fighting the weight of the world
But no one can save you this time
Close your eyes
You can find all you need in your mind, oo hoo yeah

> Find all you need in your mind
If you take the time
Find all you need in your mind
If you take the time

Always remember, in the tricky meetings, there is always the option of killing your boss and wearing his/her skin and telling everyone you have promoted taraz for his fine work.

many couples are doing like that. They never did lovey dovey things because they're focus in something. But if they're not doing like that all the time. It doesn't mean they don't love each other. They just thought that there were things need to prioritise for now. After it, it's about their love life when everything is settled.

But travelling with you love one's is an amazing feeling. 

>  If you can't be happy together in the grind, the long-term relationship is likely built on shaky ground.

Well put. Love this !

> I feel that a lot of the relationship work is forgotten in the younger generations as there is the sense that the relationships are cheap and easy to find.

There's probably at least some people like that but I don't think that's necessarily the case in general, I think it's more that people who don't want long term relationships are able to go out and do their thing without as much societal pressure to conform and settle down.  And with the younger kids (high schoolers and straight-out-of-school tertiary students) well they're relationships tend to be like fireworks anyway XD