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· @tarazkp · (edited)
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Not according to plan
<div class="pull-left">https://i.imgur.com/hqryXfk.jpg</div>

The plan was pretty simple. A babysitter had been organized for Friday evening which would my wife and I time to go shopping for a dress for her as a present. Another baby sitter had been organized for Sunday evening so we could get away for a couple hours and go to dinner. You see, it is my wife's birthday. 

Our first trip together was for her birthday also back in 2012 and we had a few days in Barcelona. That was a brilliant experience and the city is a photographer's dream come true. It is one of those places filled with contrast and no matter what you shoot, it will be beautiful. I shot a lot of my wife (then girlfriend). 

Well, the Friday babysitter fell through which meant, no shopping. No matter, she has dresses... The Sunday babysitter fell through too. Plan B, breakfast at home. We went grocery shopping and since it was already a bit late and our daughter had to eat, we took her food with us (special diet) and my wife and I grabbed a pizza at a new restaurant. She had a salmon one. At the store, I grabbed lots of her favorite things for her to eat for breakfast.

She got food poisoning from the pizza by the looks and has been ill all night. Ife it isn't food poisoning though, I am awake if our daughter gets ill in the night. I only had a little of her pizza so I *think* I have survived.

https://i.imgur.com/9ac0hEN.jpg

So now, I have no present for her (it was meant to be the dress), she won't want to have breakfast (likely still ill) and we can't go out to dinner either. I am hoping she at least feels better by the evening and I can arrange something during the day. 

On the 1st of May (Tuesday) it is the anniversary of our engagement (and a public holiday) so I guess we can make up for it a little and go and do something nice as a family. This weekend was meant to be a few hours of my wife and I being out of the house together though, as we don't often get a chance for a babysitter in the evening. It has literally been two or three times in almost 2 years. 

Things don't often go to plan around here but, it is not the end of the world. These are the things that make a life right, in sickness and in health. 

Taraz
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@alejof1019 ·
Happy anniversary...
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@ammonite ·
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I proposed to my wife in Sagrada Familia (not 's sure if that is correct  spelling) buy Im sure it was the correct decision. Barcelona is such a magical city, especially with Gaudi's buildings.
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@tarazkp · (edited)
It is a beautiful place. I loved the gothic quarter. 

Edit: we didn't ave the chance to go into the cathedral. next time :)
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@ammonite ·
It is really an amazing place. I visited a few times over several years while it was still very much a building site. Now that the main part is finished it is so magical with the stone work that looks like Lord of the rings and the beautiful light from the stain glass. My most favourite place to visit.
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@boodles17 ·
πŸ‹When life gives you lemons....MAKE LEMONADE!

I hope you wife feels better soon.
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@clio ·
I am sorry to hear about the two babysitters. It must have been a big disappointment, but you have treated it very well. It makes no sense to sulk about something that you can not change.
It is difficult, but if you can do what you have done, it is so much easier to deal with the situation.
I hope she will recover soon. You feel so miserable when you are sick of food poisoning. Wish her the best and I hope you two can go out one day soon.
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@cryptoandcoffee ·
When something goes wrong it does it properly. It is the thought that counts that you wanted to spoil her. I have had something similar in the past where just about everything that can go wrong does. Hope she is feeling better soon.
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@honeydue ·
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I am sorry it didn't all go according to plan, Taraz. That must've been annoying. still, happy birthday to your beautiful wife <3 and happy anniversary!
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@ladyrebecca ·
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Happy anniversary, just the same... although the 1st of May I expect you'll be celebrating it by ... working!
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@lordjames ·
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Happy birthday to the lady behind the man, Taraz. It looks like she's not on Steemit, so you help me extend my wishes of long life to her. 

Well, in life often times S**t happens. That's what makes it fun. I hope Tuesday favour you and you have some good time together with your wife.
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@lucentbritex ·
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That's the thing about life, she always has other plans, whilst you're making yours. It's not fair, but then that's what makes her interesting.
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@masterlegend ·
great celebration day,,
happy great day.congratulations
have a great celebration.
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@meandyou ·
This may sound cheesy, but maybe the best gift is having a loving husband and family. You taking care of the baby was the best thing you could do in a situation like that, when nothing went along your plans.
Having said that, you could surprise her with some nice gesture and gift later, when she's feeling better -because who wouldn't like to be pampered every now and then. ;)
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@mistakili ·
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Oh sorry about the way things turned out, maybe its a blessing in disguise, i wish her speedy recovery and i wish you guys a wonderful and happy anniversary, wish you many more to come.
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@olumideolowoyeye ·
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Sometimes things get so discouraging, wishes do come true but 99% of the wishes made goes to the space and never happens. Things don’t go according to plan and this I agree with you but our ability, determination and understanding to carry on makes us who we are and what we are gonna become. Life goes on like it never ends
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@petesays ·
Too true mate. Life isn't going to always give us what we want, but who we become will depend a lot on how we absorb and process challenges. Sounds like it all worked out okay and you managed to throw some good photos in there. Happy anniversary guys. Hope the ladies are good
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@sanne ·
Spending time alone with his beloved wife is a remarkable thing, especially when celebrating her birthday. Do anything to please our wives, the beauty of the dress will never be able to turn the happiness of the wife in these moments of moments even though celebrating it just to eat pizza. Good luck to your  family @tarazkp and happy birthday for your beutifull wife..! 
dont forget to invite us while celebrating anniversary!! hihii..
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@tomilolafadipe ·
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You had the baby sitter part sorted. You would have made your plans and anticipate things. Then suddenly it doesn’t go that way you’ve planned. It is part of the realities of life. Man plans, the execution is unknown until the event itself. 

Hope your wife feels better soon. How are you fairingbwith the baby too? I’m sure you got it.
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@toofasteddie · (edited)
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Sometimes things don't happen as planned, but, that is how the life is...if not, it would be very boring...Positiveness is the key ;-)
enjoy your anniversary!
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@whatsup ·
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Roundhere had an ugly bout of food poisoning this week also, he is tough, but it looked really hard.

Life is like that.  When your daughter is grown, you will miss some of those unexpected interruptions.
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@wolfhart ·
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It's a " I was gonna getcha " gift , My wife has a crap load of them :) 
The best gift is the time spent together as a family . ( memories ) 
Happy Birthday !!!!
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