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· @tarazkp ·
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To the Nines
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> Nine and counting.

Smallsteps asked us in the car which was more important, a birthday, or a wedding anniversary. I said it depends, because her birthday is more important, but my birthday is less. And also, at the end of the day, the date of marriage is less important in my opinion than the day a couple decide to be a couple, which isn't the wedding day. However, that day likely isn't remembered, so a wedding anniversary is the stand in marker. 

> Is it a wedding anniversary, or an eloping anniversary?

![colour (11).jpg](https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/tarazkp/242rwdnL3ry3mjmPTDUGeTLmkJXL7LHMQqtiq7tFLkMHWTvDrQ1Lu3jHiZ57v6nfb7WaM.jpg)

> We eloped.

While we were engaged, for reasons that mostly surrounded the cost of an actual wedding, we decided to do it in secret. We bought a dress (not a wedding dress) that I altered to fit properly, had a small bouquet made, and took our own photos of us out in the country. They are all taken from a low angle, because I didn't have a tripod. 

> And the photos were taken a couple days before we were married.

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They had to be, because we needed to print them out and make the cards that we would send to friends and family as an announcement, before we flew off to Milan for a honeymoon. Well, we turned a trip we had already booked into a honeymoon, because soon after, my wife was starting a new job that was going to take a lot of her time and energy, so we wanted to get this formality out of the way prior. 


![colour (4).jpg](https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/tarazkp/243BtwsauKeyttp1ELKQvMB4G2Y5XvjgAXNZnVZ3678c3dtZB8KQYmZ2NquDuogsksniR.jpg)

While it sounds a little sad to do it this way, because there were no friends or family to witness it, it was also in some way more special also. Yes, it was far cheaper with a lot less stress, but we got to do things together and have those secrets. We organized everything needed within a couple weeks and got married, dressed up, at the magistrates office in front of strangers, who were wearing shorts and crocs. 

> The juxtaposition added value. 

Before the "ceremony", we had a professional take some photos, because my wife had one a prize for an hour with photographer, and she convinced him to do wedding photos. But, they weren't very good in my opinion, so while we have them, no one has ever seen them. 

![colour (10).jpg](https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/tarazkp/243qPfudw7HZn4zCv4A1HBLSCo4mysjZXujD9AR64b3GV6xtam8UQPfrdKBr11qjRGUi8.jpg)

As it is a weekday, we didn't do anything special, other than go and have dinner together at a restaurant we like, while Smallsteps spent a few hours with her grandparents. While I did get her quite a different gift, it hasn't arrived yet and she has no idea what it is. But, I did suggest that once every month or two, we do something different together, like playing padel, or going to a shooting range, or perhaps archery. Ina  year, we would have shared experience with a half dozen or so random activities and perhaps we might find something that we would want to continue together. 

Next year is our tenth, so we might have to do something a little more special than dinner to mark the occasion, and we were thinking of maybe doing a weekend trip somewhere, like Rome or London. I asked the waitress what she would do for a tenth anniversary and she said that her dream would be to go rock climbing at some challenging rock face in Spain. While she climbed, her husband could be at the bottom belaying. 

I guess that is a couple's activity also.

Taraz
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@adaluna1973 · (edited)
I thought the wedding and the photos were perfect, it is interesting the special perception that human beings give to their most intimate moments.

Congratulations to you.
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@aussieninja · (edited)
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Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!  I haven't seen these photos before... they're great. The flowers blurred in the foreground make the shots so much better. 

We actually remember and celebrate the day we become a couple way more than our wedding anniversary, but we had a decade+ with just that date.  We were never going to get married, but we decided to for the overseas move - which was a shock to everyone because we had been telling them for years we were never getting married. 
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@tarazkp ·
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>The flowers blurred in the foreground make the shots so much better.

I agree. The pics are also far more my style than what a pro might do. I like a little bit weird :)

I have never asked, is your partner from the US?

>We actually remember and celebrate the day we become a couple way more than our wedding anniversary,

I think that this is the nicer way to go. I don't remember the date for this though, but I do remember the moment.

>which was a shock to everyone because we had been telling them for years we were never getting married.

Now, you will forever be liars. :D
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@aussieninja ·
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Hahaha, I'm pretty sure our friends and family have forgiven our horrendous lies.

No, we're both from Melbourne where both our families all currently live as well. 
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@bisolamih ·
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How time flies…
I wish you both more years to come together 
Happy anniversary and maybe you’d get to celebrate it in the weekend 
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@tarazkp ·
Cheers :)
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@bozz ·
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We just celebrated our fifteenth this past fall and we went away to Vermont. We try to go someplace special on those five numbers. I don't really know why. Gives us time to save up I guess. Congrats on your anniversary. I think the photos look great.
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@tarazkp ·
5 is a good amount of time between for these things.

Every time I hear Vermont, I get a picture of Ross from Friends eating a lot of taffy. Is it like that?

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@bozz ·
I had zero taffy when I was in Vermont.  It was more getting rained on and dodging the drug users.  It was actually really cool and I am glad we visited the area.  
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@goldgrifin007 ·
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> They had to be, because we needed to print them out and make the cards that we would send to friends and family as an announcement, before we flew off to Milan for a honeymoon. Well, we turned a trip we had already booked into a honeymoon, because soon after, my wife was starting a new job that was going to take a lot of her time and energy, so we wanted to get this formality out of the way prior.

Dear @tarazkp !
I'm interested to hear that you went to Milan, Italy for your honeymoon!
I remembered that Northern Europeans, who get little sunlight, want to live in Mediterranean Southern Europe, where there is plenty of sunlight!

Is that why @tarazkp, who was born in the always warm and sunny Australia, chose Milan as his honeymoon destination?πŸ˜„

I thought @tarazkp, a handsome Australian guy, wanted to spend his golden years on the shores of the Mediterranean!

I always felt that @tarazkp couldn't adapt to the cold Finnish winters!πŸ˜…
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@tarazkp ·
We just like to travel - doesn't really matter where. 
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@goldgrifin007 ·
Dear my bro @tarazkp !
I'd like to tell you a famous East Asian proverb as a gift.πŸ˜„

ι¦–δΈ˜εˆεΏƒ 
When a fox dies, it lies with its head turned toward the den where it was born.

It means that all living things die while missing their birthplace!

I remember your beautiful hometown Australia as always having sunny summer days!πŸ˜‰
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@iamlovelykate ·
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I feel like the most important memories are the ones that really matter to us personally, not just what others expect. It’s inspiring to see how you and your wife have these meaningful experiences together. I also think it's cool that you're planning fun, random activities to do as a couple. It’s a great reminder that relationships are about the little moments, not just the big celebrations.
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@tarazkp ·
One of the things on the list might be to go to a shooting range to shoot pistols - I don't think my wife has ever done that!
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@outwars ·
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I am always fascinated by your eloping story. It feels very uncommon in this day and age. I've known people that just tell their friends and family outright that they will have a small wedding to save money. I also have a friend who went abroad by himself to a long distance partner and got married there. From what I know, none of his relatives were able to go, and none in our friend group as well. With the high costs of everything, people seem to be more understanding with these things and decisions.

Happy anniversary to you and your wife.
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@tarazkp ·
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> I also have a friend who went abroad by himself to a long distance partner and got married there

That is amazing! I am guessing they had met before at least though?

>With the high costs of everything, people seem to be more understanding with these things and decisions.

I also know people who get married in other countries (in Europe), and expect people to make the trip. I know one who got married elsewhere and paid for all the guests to travel too - but that is obviously very, very rare. 
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@outwars ·
Yep, they met in the Philippines, and the girl had to move to Canada with her family. They kept in touch, and my friend eventually followed her there and they got married.

Paying for guests' trip is definitely rare, but I guess it shouldn't be as costly if everyone is in Europe and the place is also in Europe.
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@phyna ·
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Awww! Nice photos!
Your pre wedding and wedding day sounds interesting and intimate. Just the two of you enjoying your things ☺️

Happy anniversary πŸŽ‰ and many more wonderful years ahead.
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@tarazkp ·
Thanks!
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@planetauto ·
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Such fantastic photos - thank you for sharing them @tarazkp 

Happy Elopaversary!

Annabelle 😊
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@tarazkp ·
Cheers! Hope you guys are well!
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@santigs ·
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As I get older I value way more time spent with family and loving ones more than any present. Your wedding was different than a "regular" one but you had a chance to forget about everything and spent the time together. 
Happy Anniversary!
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@tarazkp ·
I prefer the experiences too - going out with friends for a glass of wine is great, or even a cup of coffee is an event these days for me. 

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@tamaralovelace ·
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Happy Anniversary!    Your wedding was perfect for you both at the time and that is just how it should be.    The ceremony was small and intimate, for you two alone, no need for an audience.   Your pictures captured it perfectly.



Many more years of happiness to you both!  Cheers

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@tarazkp ·
Thank you :) It really was fun to set up.  

These are the most selfies I have ever taken!
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@tamaralovelace ·
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Maybe you should take more selfies.  I mean you have a gorgeous wife, beautiful daughter and you are quite the knockout yourself!   Family photos will be great for Smallsteps to have in future years.    
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@videoaddiction · (edited)
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No doubt, my birthday becomes less important to me as I get aged. Why to celebrate getting older? πŸ™„
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@tarazkp ·
Isn't it funny how we want to be older when we are young so we can do more. And then when older, want to be younger so we can do more. 
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