This is a post that makes people think ang I love that 
I think in my younger years initially I felt the need to confirm to the norms or peer pressure that was in society at the time but by my late teens early adulthood I learned it was not good for me or anyone to let themselves be judged by those around us wether actually judged or our minds controlling what we do based on how we perceived people would judge us 

Sure you have to respect other peoples thoughts and opinions as their own but it’s not healthy mentally to overdo it and let other peoples opinions restrict what you choose to do