### Dealing with a Family Health Crisis

In this emotional update, TheyCallMeDan shares the difficult situation he is facing with his mother's declining health. Over the past three months, his mother has been dealing with serious heart issues that have led to a series of complications, including blood clots and a hematoma. This has prevented her from undergoing the necessary heart surgery, and her condition has steadily worsened.

Dan's mother is now in a skilled nursing facility, where she has been experiencing memory issues and hallucinations, which the doctors believe may be related to Alzheimer's disease rather than just the heart problems. This has been a devastating blow, as the family had hoped that fixing her heart would improve her cognitive function. Unfortunately, the doctors now believe the Alzheimer's is a separate, permanent condition that will only continue to deteriorate.

With his mother's health rapidly declining, Dan is now faced with the difficult decision of whether she is strong enough to undergo the risky heart surgery that could potentially extend her life. He is deeply concerned about her quality of life and is determined to do everything in his power to ensure she is comfortable and can enjoy her remaining time. 

Dan has had to deal with similar challenges in the past, having lost his father to cancer when he was 21 years old. He credits his ability to cope with this current situation to the mental fortitude he developed during that difficult time. Dan emphasizes the importance of sharing one's story and drawing strength from the experiences of others who have walked similar paths.

Despite the overwhelming pain and uncertainty he is facing, Dan remains resolute in his commitment to his family. He is taking a break from his online activities to focus solely on supporting his mother and sister during this crisis. Dan expresses gratitude for the Hive community, which has been a significant part of his life outside of his family, and he promises to return as a stronger, more resilient version of himself.

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May God bless her 💓. May good keep her healthy.

Hoping for your mother's full recovery sir.

I can understand your pain @theycallmedan

Parents are the most important part of our life and going through this situation is difficult. I pray for her speedy recovery and hope that she gets well soon. Stay strong Dan.  

Dear Dan, here and now we are all like a great family that without really knowing virtuality creates a bond, with an energy movement for you, your family and your mother.
Maybe you have no words to write that can calm what you feel, because from the difficult times we have to live, we also have something to learn, but if I can send you my energy with a great wave that reaches you so that you feel like a fresh breeze a little peace.
Today your mother needs you more than ever, in love everything can be achieved, your heart will tell you what to do, a hug DAN dear and one step at a time, because the sun shines for you and your mom.
<b>Good vibes</b>.

Meditation may be the most paramount of importance for you at this time @theycallmedan … It has always helped get me through the tougher times in life.

I'm near your mother's age and have a 'son' like you who shows me endless love... I'll go out, with a smile in my soul as a result; regardless how confused the look may be on my face.

Hope this small thought, helps 'you' and your 'mom' in some way.

Regards

Please take care of yourself and your family first, especially your mother. Honestly, I know only very little about you right now (since I am new on Hive), but I know that a lot of people love you here on Hive. You have only one family which would not be with you forever (really hope they could), but I believe the Hive community would stay along with you for a really long time.

> That's why I always tell people to take care of themselves before helping others.

It's a truth important to remember, but it seems that even I could not apply to myself (real-life me behind my anonymous account), that is why really relate to that statement of yours. 

Again, please make it your utmost priority to take care of yourself and your loved ones.

God will perform the miracle, you'll see.

I'm so sorry all this are happening to you right now. This a phase of life were forced to face. 

My grandparents always graduate from one illness to another. My grandpa has been diagnosed with partial stroke.
 
He hardly speaks but wen he does it takes patience to understand him. He has 20 grandchildren but he remembers just one and that's the eldest. 

If we come visiting my parents and his wife will start explaining who we are to him and even remind him of our names.

It's start bad but we're used to it. He's more than 90 so it's expected. One thing I know is that when there is life there's hope. 
Keep being strong for her and I will remember her in my prayers. Also be of good health so that you don't sink yourself up in worries.

Take as much time as you need Dan. Life throws you curve balls and we do what we have to do. 
I wish you and yours nothing but happiness bro. 

I'm hoping mum can live in that house beside yours and enjoy her last days happy.  

Stay strong Dan.