create account

My Daughter Is Going To Miss The First Day Of School by thisismylife

View this thread on: hive.blogpeakd.comecency.com
· @thisismylife ·
$12.25
My Daughter Is Going To Miss The First Day Of School
![school.png](https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/thisismylife/23vi4EzA1SFFVuiZSfhhpdHZcevtq2ZfUsdAEtgb2P5qTAaAZxz5fMNMr4iJX7i5Jwtm2.png)

## We moved to Spain during the holidays

When we found our new home and signed our contract, all schools were already closed for several weeks. We were already told that we could probably not reach out to any department helping us with the registration process. Meanwhile, we were facing all kinds of other challenges such as opening a bank account, getting our health insurance live and registering at this address as well as the freelancer registration. When we discovered everything was indeed quite hard and regarding school info, even impossible, I decided to let go and not stress until it was time to stress, haha.

## I started emailing a week before September 1

As I knew that the schools would open on the first of September, I thought there would be a small chance that someone would be reading it that week and could point me out how to start the process in this area. Although at first I did not receive any response, which I found odd because I assumed a week before classes start, the teachers and administrations would surely be working part-time already. Thankfully, after a few days, the administration of the nearest school (the one of our choice) answered me to let me know that school opens on September 1, and that we can come there to start the process plus that classes won't start until September 12. 

## Relief!

I remember how relieved I felt reading that classes would not start before the 12th, this meant there was a possibility that our daughter would not get stuck waiting due to bureaucratic stuff like stamps from a clerk, but maybe be registered in time to start the classes from day 1. I let go of all the stress that day. I emailed him back that we'd be there as soon as they open on the first of September. 

## Everything felt good

Just the 5 minutes walk a little uphill was the best option out there, as well as the super friendly man in the administration office, who patiently waited until we got out of our "internal error' when he asked us all kinds of things in Spanish haha. I wish we'd be able to record these moments, they must look funny! He was very patient and waited until we translated our things and then proceeded to explain things. I think after this black out, we understood everything so it wasn't all bad. At some point an English teacher came, she was by the way at least the 5th person to kindly greet us when they saw us. Everyone was friendly and smiling, it felt like we landed in the right school for her. 

## She helped explaining things

Even though it turned out I fully understood everything afterwards, it was good to have confirmation. We already knew that we don't get to decide on the actual school, we can only give our preference to the municipality and they agree or send you to another one. I decided not to give any other options and explain why all other options are really a problem currently having to walk everywhere. The walking alone is not an issue but the slippery sidewalks in combination with my bad knee (1 is not insured even lol) and the back issue is just not some journey I wish to take twice daily. It may be seriously dangerous when there's a bit of rain for example. 

## We can only hope

He told us that if she's enrolled in this school, he will call me, if she's enrolled in another, that school calls me. I've been envisioning this school to call me all week but nothing happened. He was clear, they don't control the info neither can they do anything about the decision, so even though waiting SUCKS, we can't do much but sit it out and hope for the best outcome. At first, the best outcome would be starting the first day of school like the rest of the children tomorrow. But now we're moving towards hoping that she can start this first day during the first week of the first trimester. I can only imagine it gets harder the longer it takes, especially being the English speaking kid in between the Spanish children, but on the other hand, she's already proven to handle those things well. So I should not worry too much about this part.

## I'm trying not to stress over it

The thing is that I don't know where to get the schoolbooks as well as which supplies are needed for her class because that depends on the school. I would have loved to make sure that was al taken care of but it was not possible as the enrollment is not completed. While I was hoping for some cooler days, now that the school part is not taken care of yet, the predicted rain next week is making me stress a bit more because of having no transportation. I bet it's all not needed to stress over this because I'm sure if I tell them I will order everything online, they will understand. It's just my brain that really wants to get things over with. 

I bet it will be only this week tops and then things will be settled, as I assume they understand it's going to be harder to start weeks after the trimester started. 

*Fingers crossed for better news this week!*
πŸ‘  , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , and 75 others
properties (23)
authorthisismylife
permlinkmy-daughter-is-going-to-miss-the-first-day-of-school
categoryhive-108045
json_metadata{"app":"peakd/2022.07.1","format":"markdown","tags":["school","family","neoxian","gems","pimp","vyb","pob","hive-engine","life","palnet"],"users":[],"image":["https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/thisismylife/23vi4EzA1SFFVuiZSfhhpdHZcevtq2ZfUsdAEtgb2P5qTAaAZxz5fMNMr4iJX7i5Jwtm2.png"]}
created2022-09-11 14:54:42
last_update2022-09-11 14:54:42
depth0
children11
last_payout2022-09-18 14:54:42
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value6.144 HBD
curator_payout_value6.104 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length5,091
author_reputation514,408,063,983,255
root_title"My Daughter Is Going To Miss The First Day Of School "
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id116,519,824
net_rshares17,080,909,058,348
author_curate_reward""
vote details (139)
@adcreatordesign · (edited)
$0.02
Hi @thisismylife 
I hope and prayπŸ™ your daughter gets into the school of your choice.
I'm glad the staff was so helpful and sorry you have to wait.
My I ask why you moved to Spain?  Is it cheaper there?
Maybe I missed a post about your move.
Thank you and have a relaxing day and evening.
Barb 😊
#thriveonhive
πŸ‘  ,
properties (23)
authoradcreatordesign
permlinkre-thisismylife-ri2lc1
categoryhive-108045
json_metadata{"tags":"hive-108045"}
created2022-09-12 00:00:03
last_update2022-09-12 00:00:24
depth1
children1
last_payout2022-09-19 00:00:03
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.012 HBD
curator_payout_value0.012 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length309
author_reputation14,009,071,926,119
root_title"My Daughter Is Going To Miss The First Day Of School "
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id116,534,006
net_rshares36,093,294,313
author_curate_reward""
vote details (2)
@thisismylife ·
Hi @adcreatordesign 

Thank you, I sure hope the good news will arrive soon..

We lived here 14 months after we left Holland, we liked it here but due to me falling down the stairs and having a back injury, I could not work anymore. My boyfriend could not find a suitable job in our area and got offered one in Budapest so we went there as it was the best option we had at the time. 

Although we were all excited for a new adventure, and we had some fun times there, we were never happy there. It was not our country to be in, and we really gave it a try as we stayed 4,5 years eventually. If it were up to me, we would have left the first year but our start there was rough (a lot of false promises about salary etc) so when 2022 arrived, I was fed up being unhappy there and we agreed that we would make it out of there by summer.

The why and how was not written in just one post btw, I have been writing about the prepping of the emigration from somewhere early 2022 as soon as I started planning stuff. It was a lot of work, but I'm proud that we made it even though we face a few challenges now, it was by far the easiest emigration out of 3 we did.

Thanks for stopping by!

!CTP
properties (22)
authorthisismylife
permlinkre-adcreatordesign-ri37uc
categoryhive-108045
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-108045"],"app":"peakd/2022.07.1"}
created2022-09-12 08:06:12
last_update2022-09-12 08:06:12
depth2
children0
last_payout2022-09-19 08:06:12
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length1,188
author_reputation514,408,063,983,255
root_title"My Daughter Is Going To Miss The First Day Of School "
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id116,541,914
net_rshares0
@beststart ·
$0.02
That is a bummer that she will miss the first day at her new school.
Hopefully, she will not have to wait very long.

!CTP
πŸ‘  ,
properties (23)
authorbeststart
permlinkre-thisismylife-ri236l
categoryhive-108045
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-108045"],"app":"peakd/2022.07.1"}
created2022-09-11 17:27:57
last_update2022-09-11 17:27:57
depth1
children1
last_payout2022-09-18 17:27:57
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.012 HBD
curator_payout_value0.012 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length122
author_reputation42,218,626,235,658
root_title"My Daughter Is Going To Miss The First Day Of School "
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id116,523,494
net_rshares35,395,540,358
author_curate_reward""
vote details (2)
@thisismylife ·
Yes, but what to do. I honestly saw it coming but when I heard that classes didn't start the first of September, I was very pleased as it gave me hope that it would be all done in time. Guess they are a bit slower than I hoped haha.

To be honest, if they get back to me tomorrow, I'm seriously going to wonder why they did not just push it to the extra mile last Friday.. but I guess I'm a bit too Dutch to understand this :)

!CTP
properties (22)
authorthisismylife
permlinkre-beststart-ri239i
categoryhive-108045
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-108045"],"app":"peakd/2022.07.1"}
created2022-09-11 17:29:42
last_update2022-09-11 17:29:42
depth2
children0
last_payout2022-09-18 17:29:42
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length432
author_reputation514,408,063,983,255
root_title"My Daughter Is Going To Miss The First Day Of School "
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id116,523,515
net_rshares0
@dsc-r2cornell ·
Congratulations, your post has been upvoted by @dsc-r2cornell, which is the curating account for @R2cornell's Discord Community. <center>Curated by Blessed-girl</center>
<center>![r2cornell_curation_banner.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmTwPSK52pG2QZmyNE2XHeEtuHCNSpRwmTGY7wMaWbTp8A/r2cornell_curation_banner.png)</center>
Enhorabuena, su "post" ha sido "up-voted" por @dsc-r2cornell, que es la "cuenta curating" de la Comunidad de la Discordia de @R2cornell. 

### <center>[Visit our Discord - Visita nuestro Discord](https://discord.gg/rsRGDhC)</center>
properties (22)
authordsc-r2cornell
permlinkri4g23
categoryhive-108045
json_metadata{"users":["dsc-r2cornell","r2cornell"],"image":["https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmTwPSK52pG2QZmyNE2XHeEtuHCNSpRwmTGY7wMaWbTp8A/r2cornell_curation_banner.png"],"links":["https://discord.gg/rsRGDhC"],"app":"hiveblog/0.1"}
created2022-09-13 00:01:18
last_update2022-09-13 00:01:18
depth1
children0
last_payout2022-09-20 00:01:18
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length561
author_reputation47,970,109,633,135
root_title"My Daughter Is Going To Miss The First Day Of School "
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id116,566,015
net_rshares0
@jafo40 ·
$0.02
It's too bad noone committed to your daughter attending said school. I can never feel your frustration as I have never been in your predicament. All the best for you and your daughter and hope you hear some kind of news soon.
πŸ‘  ,
properties (23)
authorjafo40
permlinkre-thisismylife-ri2233
categoryhive-108045
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-108045"],"app":"peakd/2022.07.1"}
created2022-09-11 17:04:15
last_update2022-09-11 17:04:15
depth1
children1
last_payout2022-09-18 17:04:15
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.012 HBD
curator_payout_value0.012 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length225
author_reputation236,477,127,573
root_title"My Daughter Is Going To Miss The First Day Of School "
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id116,522,761
net_rshares35,427,311,562
author_curate_reward""
vote details (2)
@thisismylife ·
It's probably the fact that often paperwork needs to go through several departments and people were just getting out of the holiday vibe so maybe a bit slow :) if that's not just 1 person, it soon adds up to several days of delay, I suppose.

Let's hope for news one of these days indeed..

!CTP
properties (22)
authorthisismylife
permlinkre-jafo40-ri22ik
categoryhive-108045
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-108045"],"app":"peakd/2022.07.1"}
created2022-09-11 17:13:33
last_update2022-09-11 17:13:33
depth2
children0
last_payout2022-09-18 17:13:33
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length295
author_reputation514,408,063,983,255
root_title"My Daughter Is Going To Miss The First Day Of School "
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id116,523,118
net_rshares0
@poshtoken ·
$0.06
https://twitter.com/makehivethrive/status/1568976921119055875
<sub> The rewards earned on this comment will go directly to the people( @thisismylife ) sharing the post on Twitter as long as they are registered with @poshtoken. Sign up at https://hiveposh.com.</sub>
πŸ‘  
properties (23)
authorposhtoken
permlinkre-thisismylife-my-daughter-is-going-to-miss-the-first-day-of-scho27819
categoryhive-108045
json_metadata"{"app":"Poshtoken 0.0.1","payoutToUser":["thisismylife"]}"
created2022-09-11 14:58:03
last_update2022-09-11 14:58:03
depth1
children0
last_payout2022-09-18 14:58:03
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.061 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length266
author_reputation3,940,268,034,457,799
root_title"My Daughter Is Going To Miss The First Day Of School "
beneficiaries
0.
accountreward.app
weight10,000
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd0
post_id116,519,884
net_rshares172,578,708,946
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@rcaine ·
I hope this all gets straighten out soon anf you get the school you want. Thanks for sharing.
πŸ‘Ž  
properties (23)
authorrcaine
permlinkre-thisismylife-ri2bme
categoryhive-108045
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-108045"],"app":"peakd/2022.07.1"}
created2022-09-11 20:30:15
last_update2022-09-11 20:30:15
depth1
children0
last_payout2022-09-18 20:30:15
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length93
author_reputation71,492,578,717,582
root_title"My Daughter Is Going To Miss The First Day Of School "
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id116,529,544
net_rshares-2,762,944,150
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@whywhy ·
$0.02
Spain is such fun and well organized but well the good thing she is probably going to school for another 10+ years so one week less is not that bad, although I get it you don't want her to be the odd one out. 
πŸ‘  ,
properties (23)
authorwhywhy
permlinkre-thisismylife-ri2dhv
categoryhive-108045
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-108045"],"app":"peakd/2022.07.1"}
created2022-09-11 21:10:48
last_update2022-09-11 21:10:48
depth1
children1
last_payout2022-09-18 21:10:48
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.012 HBD
curator_payout_value0.012 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length209
author_reputation152,618,828,944,527
root_title"My Daughter Is Going To Miss The First Day Of School "
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id116,530,340
net_rshares36,323,323,273
author_curate_reward""
vote details (2)
@thisismylife ·
Yeah it's not like it will be a huge problem, I'm just worried about the odd one out part indeed. Although in Budapest it turned out all fine, it's still a bit nerve wrecking waiting and not knowing what the day is that she can go. It would have been nicer if I could have prepped her some days ahead but I wonder if that's going to be possible :)

properties (22)
authorthisismylife
permlinkre-whywhy-ri383x
categoryhive-108045
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-108045"],"app":"peakd/2022.07.1"}
created2022-09-12 08:11:57
last_update2022-09-12 08:11:57
depth2
children0
last_payout2022-09-19 08:11:57
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length349
author_reputation514,408,063,983,255
root_title"My Daughter Is Going To Miss The First Day Of School "
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id116,542,007
net_rshares0