Hello to every hiver’s community out there,I am really really happy to have this wonderful opportunity. So yeah come and join me reading my blog introduction..!

So hello Hive.! This is me Tolits and I’m from the Philippines. I am living here having a simple and peaceful life with my Grandmother in Cebu Province.

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I was born in Sibucao Domalinao, where you can find it in “Mindanao”, and we moved here in Cebu City when I was at my second grade of elementary student. I have a two step sister and two step brother, but if we’re talking about pure siblings well I only have one brother, then he was born in Cebu City. 


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So my step sisters and brothers are not living together with us cause as what they said to our father.

“They can live with their own", so our father let them free, our father let them do what they wanted to do with their life. But my father left some words before they leave. My father said “If you guys wanted to live on your own, then go. But always remember that if you guys leave, it means you can handle yourself, and you don’t need my help anymore”.

So yeah they really leave. And father gets upset, because after all of those things that they’ve been talking about, my father wasn’t expecting that they we’re going to leave. After all of those hard things that he faces, after all of he’s sacrifice in fields, the ending they just leave and choose to be happy instead of helping our father.


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**“If you truly love someone used to love one, and don’t waste your time find and chase another one."**

**SO LET'S TALK ABOUT MYSELF THEN**

So yeah hello everyone this is Tolits, writing something for you guys.

When I was a kid like 7-8 years old I was a kind a spoiled kid. Because what I used to do is just to spend a lot of money playing on the computer shop. Like I’ve been doing it everyday, after school and I don’t mind if how much I spend everyday as long as I’m happy doing it. That time I don’t really know why am I doing it. But now I know why, it’s because my parents don’t care about what I’m doing, like all they used to do is just to work, they are focusing on their job, like it was way too sad being a kid without a parents on their side.

Because no one can take good care of you, or let’s just say no one can tell you, if what’s the right thing you should need to do, because they are not on your side, they are not together with you. So it was too sad being a kid without their parents, just like me when I was a kid, cause I've been influenced by people around me doing those things that I should not suppose to do, if I just have my parents around me. 

But when I was already at the age of 12-13 we moved to Cebu province, to my grandmother’s place, and the reason why we moved, is because I have an “Asthma” and I was in a hospital many times because of my Asthma. So then my mother decided that we need to move to the province. So yeah we really did we moved into Cebu province, where we can have some fresh air and a peaceful place. But then because we moved here in province, we need to have our own house here, so then suddenly my mother need to go back to Cebu city to work again so then she can support father by saving money to build our own house. 

They left me to my grandmother. And then on the first day living in the province without my parents again, it was so boring cause I don’t have a friend, I don’t know where or what I should play, and I don’t have someone to talk or to make me happy. What I used to do is just to help my grandmother clean the house every day, help her farming then year after year when I was already at the age of  15-17 I already knew how hard life was. Because my grandmother was being so strict to me, she used to give me a lot of work and tasks to do even though I’m still too tired. But it’s okay for me, cause I wanted to change too, I wanted to be good at doing all of those works, so then my parents will be proud of me, because I’m doing well and I’m good here in the province, even though they’re not here seeing all of those things that I’ve been doing.

I’m really proud of myself that I did it, I changed, I’m not that spoiled child anymore, I can do better now and I will make sure that my parents will be proud of me. And I won’t leave them especially to my father. I won’t leave him anymore, I won’t waste all of his sacrifices and efforts no matter how hard life is, I will fight and face all of the problems together with my family. 


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So yeah hello to you all I’m glad cause your still reading my blog introduction, I really appreciate it. So let's dig more about me then.

**Things that I Love**

What I love to do is to enjoy life and do all of my responsibilities, I really love to help my family. And to help them.! Well I need to be good, I need to be strong to do it alone, and I need to be independent doing work through my daily life as a good son. 


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I loved biking too, cause it could make myself comfortable, and it can make me happy for a while, I loved doing it cause it can release stress, and it can improve (increase your stamina, strength, flexibility,joint mobility or decrease your body fats etc. It's has a lot of benefits. So you should try it too.


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**Things that I hate**

So yeah let’s talk about what I don’t like or I hate tho.

Actually I hate a lot of things. Like I hate noises, I hate bullies, and I hate being in “trouble” like I don’t want to have a fight, or let’s just say that, what I want is just a peaceful life. Cause instead of fighting.! Then, what about let’s just talk about what happened, what I have done, what did I do wrong like let’s just argue with that problem then, in a simple and friendly talk. Instead of fighting why can't we just keep ourself chill and calm, so then we can talk about it right.?

Like for me “*it is better to leave the trouble and used to do good anytime”*


**My talent**

Hi guy’s still there?
“I know that you won’t leave me.”😄

So yeah let’s talk about what is my talents. Well what I like is to sing, I loved singing since I was a kid, like even though I have a bad voice but I still liked singing, I can sing but not that good like an artist singer. But I’m still doing my best to improve my voice and to be more good at singing as soon as possible.

But not just singing, I loved playing guitar too, that’s my hobby, playing guitar. Actually every time that I’m not in my mood or something sadly happened to me, when I’m playing guitar, it could make myself calm. This instrument make me feel better, like everytime that I'm sad, having a stress or not in a good mood. Then when I play guitar it could release my stress out, then it makes me feel good and comfortable. So I could say that this instrument is one of my talents and it's my comfort zone tho.

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So yeah I’m really thankful for being a part of this Hive community platform. Cause now I can write and share my experiences of my life. Because that’s really what I liked, to write and share something to everyone, and I really loved writing. So thanks to our beloved teacher ma’am “@callmesmile”. Thanks a lot for introducing me this kind of Platform. I am so glad to know that I can now, share and write to everyone.


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That’s all for today’s blog guys.

***Stay safe guy's and always take good care of yourself, hope you'll like my story***