![route](https://cdn.pixabay.com/photo/2015/11/07/11/04/road-1030789_960_720.jpg) 我喜欢大自然,有时间的时候喜欢去各个地方转转,旅游、爬山、露营……但我一直不喜欢跟团——无论国内还是国外,也不喜欢看别人的旅游攻略,我喜欢自己探索玩法,也因此错过了别人已经发现的精彩之处。 许多次经历后,我还是意识到自己这样的做法可能并不好。就如同做科研,我们当然要自己做研究,发现前人未发现的东西,但这个前提是基于前人的经验和教训,这样子才走得更快,否则很可能是重复了别人的路子,重复造轮子。 我估计不少人心中有这样的假设:如果人生能重来?我一定能过得更好。他们相信自己能避免以往踏过的坑,放大自己做得好的地方。 可惜人生没有如果,时光一去不复返。但是,人生有攻略吗?最近我读到吴军博士的著作《见识》和《态度》后,读后很有共鸣。 吴军博士从清华大学毕业后去美国完成了博士学业,然后在谷歌和腾讯都做到了高管位置,其后再自行创业,创办了投资公司。他的教育背景和人生经历具有相当大的跨度。目前50多岁的他,人生获得了相当大的成就——不只是物质财富,达到了一个充满人生智慧的状态。 市面上不乏类似的谈人生的书籍,但绝大部分缺乏说服力——好多作者自己的人生都没有什么成就,沦为不带勺的心灵鸡汤。只有自己的亲身经验才有说服力。一个连孩子都没有生过的人,去培训新生儿的父母,总觉得不太靠谱。在吴军博士的书籍里,他清晰详细地像讲故事一样分享了他求学、工作、生活、创业中的世界观、金钱观、人生观。 难能可贵的是,他结合吸纳了中西方文化中的优秀成分,这些人生智慧更符合当下的人们。尤其是《态度》一书,40封写给他两个女儿的家书,引导她们的成长,我感觉像是现代版的曾国藩家书。 每个人的人生都是独一无二的,需要自己亲身去体验,被安排的人生是无味的。在我看来绝对正确的人生攻略并不存在,但是看看那些优秀人的经验分享,启发自身思考,提升人生格局和境界,在漫长又短暂的人生路上,或许能少走一些不必要的弯路。 我有些后悔前半生没有像吴军这样的智者引导自己成长,至少没有读到类似的书籍,否则人生可能会更精彩一些?不过我坦然接受这一切,过去的事情毕竟过去了,面向未来。我的读者群中有不少年轻人,愿你们的人生过得精彩!
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能够读经典的书籍,就像在听大佬教诲一下,肯定可以有所收获了😊😊
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没有攻略,重要的是活在当下
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