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Why are some days great, while with others everything just seems to go wrong? 

I have been struggling to understand what makes something a good or bad day so easily. 

I have come to a few conclusions which means that I have found room for improvement. 

I have always wondered why something so insignificant - like someone canceling plans - impact the rest of my day so greatly.  

How do we make each day our own?

What must you find in each day to make it the best?

Change the world to be yours. 

Let me explain. I recently started a new job where I have to make phone appointments with people and on Saturday 2 out of my three appointments canceled on me which felt like a  tragedy. Why can someone's actions impact me so greatly?
Maybe because I trust people too much? 

I have always wanted to fit in, it has always been hard to know that you are on the outside of the main crowd. 

Now that high school is coming to a close, I have realized how much none of it matters, at all. 
The people that I have grown up with all soon be gone. Yet, somehow that does not make me as upset as it should. In fact, I am excited to get away, to find more people who value the same things I do. I never thought the day of graduation would be this close. 

I have realized that the only person who is there for you always is yourself. 
Everyone comes and goes out of your life for one reason or another. 
I always thought my best friends would be forever but over the years I have realized how much we have changed. It was just not fun anymore.

but why?

I have come to the conclusion that every person you meet in your life is here for a reason. 
In these situations, both parties gain something from​ the experience and interaction. Sometimes you can figure out the reason for​ why it happened afterward​, but many times it is very unclear for a long time. 

In the short run everything has a positive or a negative, but over time everything evens out to a happy medium where most can become content and appreciative of every event that has ever crossed their path. 
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