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<p>Yesterday, I received a call from my friend, she is full disappointment and resentment of her current career, she do not understand why even she have done a lot of hard work, but still don’t get the promotion. She told me sadly that she had missed the manager position three times in a row.</p>
<p>From her words, I sense full of sadness. Yes, when you work harder than others, but good things always happened to other people. Until our age and experience has no longer an advantage, we are defeated in life. When day-to-day work kills our enthusiasm for working, in the end, what we have left? What else do you have?</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.businessinsider.my/things-not-to-keep-on-work-computer-2017-4/?r=US&IR=T">source</a></p>
<p>This thing called work, just like relationship, the result might not be the same as you imagine, including even if you get a promotion, but maybe it is not because your capability, maybe you just being lucky.</p>
<p>And this thing called luck, is the thing we cannot begged for. Good luck is mostly given to you, instead of waiting good luck given by others, it is better to practice to turn yourself into a person who brings good luck.</p>
<p>Not only my friend, but even myself. For two or three consecutive years, I was transferred to other departments to help due to lack of manpower. No, I don’t get extra pay from that.</p>
<p>Am I angry?</p>
<p>Sometimes when I think about it, yes.</p>
<p>But is anger useful?</p>
<p>The answer is obvious, I think you are like me, the more it happened, the more you should know how to deal with it.</p>
<p>How we should spend of life should decide by us, what others give does not counted, what others can give you today, they might take it back the next day.</p>
<p>So, rather than expect others to give us good luck, why not earn it through our own efforts, so that we will become person who bring good luck.</p>
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<p>I often ask myself, "What do you do besides working and sleeping?" These are the times that you can change your destiny, are you sure you're not wasting it? ”</p>
<p>Yes, you can't control your time at work, but it doesn't mean you're not free after work.</p>
<p>When we can change our fate, seize the other 8 hours of your life, make full use of this time, perhaps you will find that after work, the achievements of this 8 hours, will be more exciting than at work.</p>
<p>I believe that those who have job that is going smoothly, after working hours, after many years depending on the job, the job will make them loss their passion. Perhaps there are too many unable to release passion and enthusiasm, willing to try and explore all the new things, adhere to the study and practice, slowly, achieve a better self.</p>
<p>You have to believe that no one will be forever victorious in workplace. In the workplace, repeatedly frustrated is the truth of life.</p>
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<p>I still remembered the first company I used to work for, there was a manager, because of some other people, he got edged out by the others.</p>
<p>Then he simply resigned and build his own business. Now, he is a small well-known landscape planners and developers. </p>
<p>When his ex colleagues were eating, buying branded stuff, when the company has a bright future, they are enjoying the time, he has to learn under the lights, guarding loneliness, silently upgrade his professional skills, and eventually become the leader in the field of professional and completely turn his life around.</p>
<p>If you are willing to change yourself, in one day, other than working and sleeping time, how you spend the remaining 8 hours, is completely up to you.</p>
<p>In these 8 hours, you can improve yourself, you can be your own CEO, actively exercise for your health, or even enjoy life with your family.</p>
<p>In short, if you can maintain the value of these 8 hours and have some results, I believe that even if there are more difficulties in the future, even if the workplace has a lot of warm and cold, it will not be your last hurdle.</p>
<p>There are some words my moms often tell me, try to do something that can increase your current income after work. But I often feel that I don’t have any talent in anything, what can I do?</p>
<p>Everytime I face this problem, I am dazed, I don’t even know myself, how can I know what to do?</p>
<p>There is a relatively good way, you must first think clearly, what do you want to do?</p>
<p>A person will be happy when doing certain thing. When this happens, it means that, that is the thing you want to do. Maybe these certain thing can make money, but it's very exhausting, and it makes you miserable, and there's probably no way to do it forever. Because your heart doesn’t love and accept it so that it will have such emotions. Your body won't lie to you, it will tell you, your real state of mind.</p>
<p>Some people said that I have no skills, no money, all I can do is work now.</p>
<p>In fact, this is also true, if the other 8 hours you are willing to spend to excel in your professional skills, I believe that your professional standards and skills will be far higher than now. In the workplace, this will increase your opportunity and increase your salary. In this society, we still need a truly capable person, a gold will eventually shine, but you need to become a piece of gold first.</p>
<p>Therefore, the 8 hours besides the working and sleeping hours, is the key time to quietly open the gap between people.</p>
<p>The problem is how you going to spend your 8 hours. This need to look at your situation, because everyone is different, what people like doesn’t mean you like it too. It is actually very difficult to use other people's dream as yours, if it doesn’t work, you will give up easily.</p>
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<p>There is one thing that may be overlooked.</p>
<p>Even if there are many seemingly obvious differences in standards of career development and wealth accumulation , family, personal experience, and physical health, the 8 hours, is basically the same for everyone.</p>
<p>The only difference is that some people know how to optimize the time, have more understanding on scientific coordination, has the extremely good self-control, can say goodbye to the leisure, the entertainment, the food, and the game. They guarantee will use this time to create one core skill, and take that opportunity and fight for financial freedom and start a business.</p>
<p>Therefore, even if we do not have a core competitiveness of the skills, we should start sharpen a deep interest in our hobbies and abilities, which should be a part-time job after work to make money, which have a long-term value.</p>
<p>On the surface, it is a pleasure to earn money by doing part-time job after work. But the wealth may be quickly taken away by you after work, and finally find that the money you make doesn't have much to do with yourself.</p>
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