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I'M NOT HAPPY AT TIMES
**I'M NOT HAPPY AT TIMES**

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I want to say this , being single carries a lot of enjoyment.please try and get this, I am not saying being married is not good. 
The things I never knew from the start, not until I entered into marriage, I started knowing them.
Well , people say marriage is a beautiful thing, I agreed but I think marriage is a teaching place for me. There are things I did while I was still a bachelor but now I can't anymore.

While I was still a bachelor, I liked treating myself so well. What I am trying to say is that after collecting my salary the first thing I think of is about myself but now that I am married with two kids, I don't do that anymore because I have to sort my wife and kids out first before thinking about myself, seriously sometimes as a man I am always mad at everything but will still let it go out of mind ( it is my responsibility) may God continue to help married men.

While I was still a bachelor, I like playing football with guys almost every weekend but now I can't do that anymore,,I remembered when we just got married and I told my wife that I would still like to be doing my stuffs with, what I heard from my wife that very day factory set my head and I adjusted .now that I am married, I don't know what has gotten into me because I hardly now go out to see friends , go to party and others like that .my called a name one day and I could not sleep that night(she called me woman rapper) ,then I told her won't worry I will start going out with friends, if I still tell you that I still find it hard to do what I said I will do , well things changes when you are married, they just start happening and you won't be able to explain how.

My wife and I do have serious misunderstandings that could have led to divorce but thank God for the good people around us , sometimes we as a couple needs to know our duties , what we are to do and what we must not do, because I discovered that what is really causing rancor in marriages is lack of understandings and not knowing your works or duties  in the union.
As a man knows your responsibility and women too should do that as well.women should know their husbands is their head and not tail.and men should know that wives should be loved.

**Bible backed this up 
Women are submissive to your husband and men love your wife.**

If you know the rules in marriage, your union will be at peace .

***The lesson I got from my marriage .***
**1.No matter the condition I should love my wife and kids .**
**2.i should be responsible enough for my family to see( be a responsible man).**
**3. I should understand my partner and make my marriage work since it is not a domestic one.**


***Thanks for reading my post.*** 

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@actordontee ·
Marriage is indeed a school of thought and a great lesson. But at the end of everything, love,understanding and endurance covers it all.
God will help us all bro πŸ’“πŸ’“
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@wallay ·
Amen !!!thank you for reading my post
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@actordontee ·
You welcome bro 
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@emreal ·
It is really not easy, I am not married yet but I have seen married men and I feel their pains.

The truth is once you are married there are a lot of things that you can no longer do inorder to keep your family in Peace and in order.

Your family is your friend now, your wife is now your biggest paddy, that is why you both left your parents to be united as one. You have to be very careful with what you hear from people outside too it can ruin your marriage. Being around your wife all the time doesn't make you a woman wrapper, it makes you a good husband instead. 
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@wallay ·
Thanks for your comments , God bless you 
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@emreal ·
You are welcome 
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@fredaig ·
Hmmm well its a good thing you've amended your ways and really respect your wife even if misunderstanding happens, but i would love to here from the lady before believing if what you wrote is true 😁😁😁
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@wallay ·
Hmmmm, it is the truth ☺️☺️
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@fredaig ·
Ohhhk as you say mister... 😁😁
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@george-dee ·
Marriage is a new stage of life that requires lots of preparedness and commitment.  I understand how you need to readjust something about yourself just for the marriage to work and the truth is that the fun and everything you miss can still happen. 


Understanding really matter and wish you more happiness in your marriage.
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@wallay ·
Amen , thank you so much
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@wallay ·
$0.02
Thank you so much
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@olujay ·
Before anything else, I have to say that Jamiel and ...(don't know his name yet) are very adorable boys. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree indeed.

Now, back to the matter. Una dey make this marriage thing dey fear me. Be like this bachelor life sef no bad. But, nah, I'd still like to have my own woman and family and be their own too.

Let me just be learning from experiences...
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@wallay ·
LolzzzπŸ˜‚, we do love each other but we have to make our marriage work so far we truly love ourselves 
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@vickoly ·
It's well Bro, Married indeed comes with loads of responsibility and it's just normal that one won't be able to do everything they do when they're single, even if one do it's better moderate to avoid misunderstandings in the house.
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@wallay ·
Yeah , you have said the truth, thank you 
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