钢琴老师在群里问孩子们最近的练琴情况，好多家长都有一肚子苦水要倒，对比起来我家的情况，好像还好~ 学琴是J五岁时自己的选择，不否认我有过诱导，那个年纪的孩子还是很容易引导的^^ 让他学习钢琴唯一的目的是希望他能听得懂音乐，如果有兴趣以后作个小曲写写歌之类丰富一下业余生活就更加不错。 让他自己做选择的好处是，当他日后对弹琴厌倦时你可以说这是你自己的选择必须要坚持，孩子嘛，将有很长一段时间都是孩子，所以当他意识到自己不必为5岁的选择承担任何后果时，基本已经迟了，几年过去，他可能已经离不开钢琴了。 对于陪他练琴，我的耐心在学琴的前两年就已经用完了，我也深知天资一般的孩子走不了专业弹琴的路，所付出的辛苦与收获可能都不成正比，所以咯，调整心态很关键。 也所以我们练琴一直没有多辛苦，除了大约在第二年难度进阶的时候，有一小段时间比较吃力，那段时间他在老师那学习一个新曲子，回家是不会弹的，需要一小节一小节去练很久才弹得下来，当时我还想如果练琴一直要这样子下去，那真的是太辛苦了，虽然对他少不了大呼小叫，但也很是心疼。 好在那段时间并不长，在那之后，练习就比较顺了，新学的曲目也只是会不熟，而不是不会弹，这样即便我不理会，他自己来练，也能弹个差不多。 就只是差不多啦，因为要求不高，差不多也就还好，老师会认为我这家长不够负责，虽然也是事实，但我想以J的叛逆，弹琴这事我若严格了，他肯定会很排斥。 现在他不排斥弹琴，甚至是很喜欢，但他只喜欢弹他喜欢的曲子，有要求地练习还是会排斥，这也是人之长情。他很快就上高年级了，我希望以后弹琴会是他舒缓学习压力的一个方式，所以更加不能在这时候加码要他多练，但想要过级，以他现在的力度还是有点困难的，就尽可能多多地鼓励吧。 他自己也会想办法来解决练琴过程的枯燥，比如最近他每天都在练琴时用讲故事的形式来主导一场音乐剧，从哈农指法开幕，到大汤3，到599一点点推进情节，最后在他最爱的钢琴名曲里完成故事的高潮以及结局。虽然这样练琴效率不会太高，也因为加入了不合适宜的情节，导致一些节奏需要很严谨去弹的练习曲目也被他变了画风，但是这样练琴快乐呀，他会不厌其烦地讲故事，配乐，重点是我也很快乐，不必跟他喊，还有戏看。  Pixabay
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当个乐趣培养就好了
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嗯是这样🙂
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最珍贵的就是自得其乐，水准如何倒是其次
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对呀，就这意思😀
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