在一起还是最重要的 by wjr

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cn · @wjr · May 6 '18 (edited)

$0.14

在一起还是最重要的

孩子妈近两月一人带两孩子，大孩子三岁偶尔用哭来表达需求，说让她心力憔悴，但我不想把孩子给奶奶带，也不想奶奶过来帮忙，我不想让孩子再次陷入原生家庭循环中，只能如此。

计划接下来搬家到郴州市区，那里有更多工作机会，晚上能一家人在一起，可以营造一个更融洽的气氛，孩子喜欢哭更多原因是得到关注太少，相信得到来自父亲更多关注陪伴，孩子的需求得到满足，孩子妈附带的焦虑也可以缓解。

另一个原因是，目前乡村悠闲的环境会给孩子一个认知——不怎么努力也可以生活得不错。

而生活在一起，让他看到我的工作，可以让孩子潜意识认为生活本身需要不断付出努力才是常态。

👍 tumutanzi, cnbuddy, ubg, toninoti, anomaly, xiaoshancun, hqy

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@cnbuddy · May 6 '18

你好cn区点赞机器人 @cnbuddy 这厢有礼了。如果不想再收到我的留言，请回复“取消”。

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@wjr · May 6 '18

谢谢！

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@hqy · May 12 '18

你是个很有思想的年轻人，为你点赞！

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@wjr · May 12 '18

哈哈，谢谢贺老师！

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@tumutanzi · May 6 '18

$1.00

挤出时间陪陪孩子，的确是很重要的。

👍 tumutanzi

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@wjr · May 6 '18

坛子哥也这么说更坚定想法了。

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@tumutanzi · May 6 '18

$0.84

这个几乎是不言而喻的事情啊。

👍 tumutanzi, penghuren

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