There are no superheroes in my closest waiting to rescue me. I need to fix my own problems. Sometimes I may not have the best solutions but they are mine and mine alone. If I fail, I pick up, learn from the experience and carry on!

We need to work and through pur work we succede. God is always There with us and make all things possible. I Guess the heroes are the ones who help , who support  and everyone can be a hero

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YES! And these scripts (hero, saviour, victim and villain) are all a part of the same damaging story. We can step outside this paradigm...there are other ways of being which are much more powerful in changing outcomes.

I think we are all the heroes. It may not seem like it now, but humanity has more power than we think. We are made in the image of God, just because we don't realize or understand that doesn't change it.

I think in the next few years we are going to see things start changing. One thing I feel is almost completely overlooked is our ability to change ourselves. To BE the change. I don't think we really understand what that means yet, but once we do things, and start finding the best in our world, things will start looking up.

can verify, i saved myself.  it was a conscious choice. 

I had the same thoughts, the same process of noticing the dependency that was intentionally created.

The problem with taking responsibility for our own happiness is very similar to the Bystander Effect. In short, it's a following phenomenon:

1.  If you need help and there is only one person around you, there is a high chance that he/she will approach and help you.
2. If you need help and there is 15 people around you, for each of them individually, there is a drastically lower chance that they will approach and help you, since everybody thinks "why me" or "if anyone else isn't helping, I don't have to help either".

We humans tend to hope too much that things will just work out, and have a habit on acting only when it's absolutely necessary or when it's absolutely obvious that it's our own responsibility.

I'm actually planning on publishing a full article about the Bystander Effect tomorrow.

Cheers! : )

we alone are the hero, the other a fictitious or just a dream

The philosophy of anarchy, in its most refined sense, is rooted in the concept of personal responsibility.  Personal responsibility is the source and fountain of personal growth and spiritual evolution. One of the great curses of our time has been the rise of dependency upon the state, dependency upon authority and what others tell us we should be and what we should think, to be homogenized into a mindless cringing horde, regurgitating the evening news and the propaganda of those who enslave us. 

You speak of a greater vision, a vision that in our minds, should be self evident to anyone with a wit of sense. But such is not the composition of humanity. Most of us it seems are content to be led, to forfeit our independence in trade for security and safety. Until we, as humans, understand our inherent potential and the possibility of individual Wholeness we are doomed. 

Many blessings.

This is so true.. 
And great to know that you teach martial arts. I am learning to become a taekwondu as well.
As for heroism, when we expect extraordinary people to become heroes we liberate ordinary people from sense of responsibility...you are very much right.
so good to read your blog after my long break from steemit. Good to have myself back at reading worth it stuff ☺
@wwf i just uploaded my introduction yesterday. It would be an honor if you leave a feedback 😊

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>The people of this planet have been conditioned for obedience so that they can be farmed like animals. 

This conditioning starts very young in the educational system.  Of course, it carries on through with a job being told when to be somewhere, what time to take a break, and when to leave.  

I agree with the idea that people are always looking towards big brother.  People will talk about freedom, hating having big brother looking over their shoulders, yet when push comes to shove, they are the first to scream for someone to do something about it.  

The victimization mindset is a powerful weapon.  I learned early on that I wasnt going to stay sober as long as I was a victim.  This is a condition that most under the throws of addiction clink to.  The rationalization and justification gets a lot easier when one is pointing out all the wrongs the world did to him.  

Responsibility is a tough thing.  It is much easier to blame others.  This absolves one of having to take action although, ironically, they do end up suffering the consequences. 

In the end, we are responsible for the lives we lead.  I like your view on things @wwf....thanks for helping me to grow.

I agree with you but I have the same thinking about capitalism...I don't know why did you mention feudalism alone...
> This feudal system that has grown up around us encourages dependency and helplessness.  The people of this planet have been conditioned for obedience so that they can be farmed like animals.  What is needed now is independence and peaceful non-compliance so that we can break free from the cages that confine our minds, bodies and spirit!

Very much the situation.
I wish there was more reflection of what the past had to be exchanged to move to this point.... 

~☆~

In the story I shared with you
I never expected saving.
This heart was seeking proof divinity was real after so many painful tests to keep faith.

Instead we were taught to see our individual power to heal and be responsible for our own welfare.

Divinity is LOVE. 
As a mother or father loving caring for their child. (Instead of tossing them in a dumpster!)
But a good parent helps their child grow to be self sufficient.

~☆~ 
I have a feeling you may like this song. 
Its all about returning to the land. 


Love and light!

https://youtu.be/d85RuIhs5Ww

When Mary asked for help from God... 
God asked her to shake the palm first and then he gave her food... 
God was able to give her food without doing anything... 
God created this life and created with it laws and laws of life that success comes after work .. is not a gift that comes without effort 
That doesn't mean we don't need others... We as human beings are social creatures, and we must stay together and help each other to spread peace and love
thank you my brother @wwf

Yup, okay. Your point is helping me to see clearer. It is very good wisdom your blog shares. Very good!! It's like the solution is so clear yet my mind is so clouded by the generations of colonization. Which is all crumbling down. Bit by bit by bit. Thank-you for your commitment to non-violence and peaceful non-compliance. There's a lot of reporograming going on! What a tangly issue!!! Lots of love & blessings good kind man. Thank-you so much for taking time to share and engage with us who are vulnerable and weak. I will be one to grow & pay it forward. 💖 #growingislife