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Creo que podemos recordar nuestra infancia y sobre todo esos momentos en que nos dijeron nuestros padres, un **No** contundente.

Mi infancia fue buena a decir verdad, pero, sin embargo, mi madre siempre decía que "No" a todo, no era una niña de dar pataletas por las cosas, a pesar de ser hija única, si fui muy consentida a decir verdad, pero jamás di pataletas por qué en esa época mi madre me hablaba solo con la mirada y si no hacía caso me esperaba una gran paliza.

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I think we can remember our childhood and especially those moments when our parents told us a blunt "No".

My childhood was good to tell the truth, but, however, my mother always said "No" to everything, I was not a child to give tantrums for things, despite being an only child, if I was very spoiled to tell the truth, but I never gave tantrums because at that time my mother spoke to me only with her eyes and if I did not listen I expected a big beating.


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Realmente mi madre tenía una manera fuerte de decir las cosas cuando era niña y por consiguiente en la adolescencia,  creo que No era su palabra favorita y yo no podía refutar eso, pero a medida que fui creciendo me volví rebelde gracias a tantos No en mi vida.

En la adolescencia pasé muchos disgustos por escuchar tanto esa palabra, ya que mi madre no me dejaba ser según yo, claro que había cosas que hoy agradezco de esos no, la cuestión era la forma de decirlos y hacerme sentir mal, creo que ella actuaba de esa manera porque me amaba y eran otros tiempos, mi madre no era una mujer estudiada, solo trataba de protegerme y esa era su manera, ahora lo comprendo.


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Actually my mother had a strong way of saying things when I was a child and therefore in adolescence, I think No was her favorite word and I could not refute that, but as I grew up I became rebellious thanks to so many No's in my life.

In adolescence I went through a lot of unpleasantness for hearing that word so much, since my mother did not let me be according to me, of course there were things that today I am grateful for those No's, the issue was the way she said them and made me feel bad, I think she acted that way because she loved me and those were other times, my mother was not a studied woman, she was just trying to protect me and that was her way, now I understand it.

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Esto me enseñó a mí, a ser diferente con  mis hijos, siento que les digo **No** con firmeza cuando es debido y soy un poco más permisiva con ellos que lo que mi madre era conmigo.

Esto me ha servido para que mis hijos me tengan más confianza, creo que entre mi esposo y yo hemos hecho un gran trabajo pues en su adolescencia son chicos felices que pueden disfrutar, y no ser egocéntricos, saben que a veces se puede y a veces no, eso es importante.

En la niñez de mis hijos, ellos aprendieron a respetar las decisiones, sobre todo el mayor, la menor siempre quiere saber el por qué no; sin embargo, acepta pues no le queda de otra ,  ya que nuestra decisión es firme.

 

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This taught me to be different with my children, I feel that I tell them **No** firmly when it is due and I am a little more permissive with them than my mother was with me.

This has helped me so that my children have more confidence in me, I think that between my husband and I we have done a great job because in their adolescence they are happy kids who can enjoy themselves, and not be self-centered, they know that sometimes they can and sometimes they can't, that is important.

In my children's childhood, they learned to respect decisions, especially the eldest, the youngest always wants to know why not; however, she accepts because she has no other choice, since our decision is firm.







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Pienso que debe haber un equilibrio entre los No y los si, como padres cuando los niñoss están pequeños no podemos complacerlos en todo pues crecerán creyendo que todo lo merecen y que todas las personas deben rendirse a ellos y al crecer será duro para ellos pues el egocentrismo no los dejara ver de una manera clara.

***Debemos recordar que un **No** a tiempo, puede marcar la diferencia de toda una vida, para nuestros hijos.***

Invito a participar en esta iniciativa de la amiga @parauri a @kristal24 y @cochanet  , para que nos cuenten un poco de su experiencia. 






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I think that there must be a balance between no and yes, as parents when they are young we cannot please them in everything because they will grow up believing that they deserve everything and that all people must surrender to them and when they grow up it will be hard for them because egocentrism will not let them see in a clear way.

***We must remember that a **No** in time, can make the difference of a lifetime, for our children.***


I invite @kristal24 and @cochanet to participate in this initiative of our friend @parauri, so that they can tell us a little of their experience. 



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