*I wonder who doesn't go through the stress of expectation vs. reality? I think almost everyone. If there are expectations then there must be some stress. Many say that don't expect too much but it's not always possible, isn't it? I mean, what our life would be without expectations!*
 


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Don't worry there are ways to deal with the expectations. Let's see some!
 
 
One of the common mistakes we made while expecting anything; despite our common sense tells us, we knowingly or unknowingly expect something else. This increases the stress most of the time. If we learn to only rely on our sense, do the math then you can better guess what's gonna happen. 
 
Now, we have to understand that reality is not in our hands. We can just try our best to make it happen. There will still be many unchangeable things and influences which can change the reality no matter what we do. Keeping this in mind, we should prepare ourselves that way. 
 
* Ask yourself what you actually want from the situation.
* If that doesn't happen, calculate how it will affect your life.
* Figure out what you need to prepare to avoid the expected.
* Look at all the positive alternatives you have.
* Don't make your life dependent on something you are expecting.
* Cut off the bad influences that increase your stress.
* Don't blame yourself for the disappointment.
 
 
It's true that what we expect if that doesn't happen, it makes a scare in our heart. It's tough to go through it, make a different choice, cope with the situation, and move on into life. But do you know what, this is how life works? 
 
 
Who knows maybe there is something more is waiting for you which you didn't expect. Never lose hope and beat the stress!