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幸福者退让
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最近几年总是会有一些恶性事件的报道,有些人好端端的突然就是怒火冲天,然后周边无辜群众受害,不少人死于屠刀,也有更多人死于车祸。

昨天看到一个小视频,一个外卖小哥往一辆宝马车上泼粪水,被女车主拉住说理,要求赔偿,结果外卖小哥说是车主给他连续三次差评,害他没了工作,故意报复的。女车主感到莫名其妙,一来她根本不认识外卖小哥,二来,她最近几天都出差,根本没有点过外卖,更别谈给差评了。

原来是她公司的一位员工用她的车,并给了外卖小哥差评,原因是晚了两分钟。同时据外卖小哥说,这位员工要求他爬20楼送餐,楼下的保安不给他小哥用电梯,这才导致送餐延迟,小哥第一次被扣200块钱,连续的三次差评直接让小哥封了号,工作都弄丢了,这才找上门来准备报复。

搞清楚情况以后,女车主赶紧安抚小哥情绪,同时,给与小哥2000多的补偿,又让自己公司的哪位差评同事撤销差评,看能否修复小哥工作,如果不能恢复,则让小哥来公司找她,她会帮忙找一份工作。

小哥这才情绪平复下来,这位女车主把差评哥一顿训。说了社会上的那些恶意报复社会的事件,自己赚多少钱,外卖小哥赚多少钱,我觉得这位女车主讲的特别有道理。得饶人处且饶人,谁不犯错误,没必要把人往死路上逼,因为兔子急了还会咬人呢?人家没有活路了,会放过你?光脚的不怕穿鞋的,不就是这个道理吗?

说到幸福着退让,真的是一条非常正确的准则,我们有自己幸福的家庭,在外面就要多礼让,不要为一点小事跟人发生冲突,当然不是说就软弱,可以讲究方式方法,总之不能硬碰硬。在外也要藏富,古人说的好,“不可露白”,也就是钱财不可外露,这就不是说幸福着退让了,就是不要让歹人(因为也不知道身边都是什么样的人)知道自己有钱,钱财会给自己惹来祸端。

经济形势不好的时候越是要注意这些问题,因为失业的多了,没钱的多了,仇视社会的人也多了,社会的不稳定因素也多了,保护自己的人生安全,当然得自己多一分心眼了。

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@auleo ·
哇 迟两分钟就给差评? 那保安也是人中豪杰了,让人爬20楼,在我们这里早就叫你下来自己领取了。
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@zhangyan-123 ·
本来是让自己取,给差评那人就不取,欺负小哥😂
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@celeste413 ·
得饶人处且饶人吧,感觉那个差评的人故意刁难别人,很恶心
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@zhangyan-123 ·
是的,就是欺负人
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@coco666 ·
是滴
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@liumei ·
那个视频大概率是摆拍,但是挺入人心的。

被曝光的社会恶性事件太多了现在,百姓的苦情绪没处发泄,就伤害比他还弱的人,只能自己小心了。
有句话叫“示弱不等于软弱”,善待他人善待自己。
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@zhangyan-123 ·
是的,善待他人
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@love5200 ·
给这个大姐点赞啊,她的做法很对,其实也是渐渐挽救了一个人,那个时候如果和对方僵持下去,还不知道会发生什么事情呢。
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@zhangyan-123 ·
对的,这个时候真的不能逞能,点快递那人本来就是欺负人
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@marygong77777 ·
这车的女主人真好哟
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@zhangyan-123 ·
她处理的好!
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@theiam ·
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@zhangyan-123 ·
Thanks😘
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@trina77 ·
车主不愧是领导干部作风,很欣赏,外卖我真的从来没给过差评,大家都不容易,这个社会需要多一份理解
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@zhangyan-123 ·
对的,应该是多一份理解!
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@wittywheat ·
非常同意!我没给过差评。而且还带笑脸感谢送快递哥哥。偶尔还打赏喝茶钱鼓励鼓励他们。😄
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@zhangyan-123 ·
是的,确实他们很不容易,给我们很多方便,我每次都是谢谢他们的
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