Those words "I do" are words that mean a lot. They are words that express our will to commit to another. They are so many things to be considered before saying these words. 

One of the major reason for high rate of divorce is that people don't study their Compactibilty level both in long and short term. These includes career objectives, lifestyle and even sexual Compactibilty. 

Others miraculously expect things to change themselves once they get married. We have got to learn to sit and discuss these issues 

Like they say, *as you lay your bed, so you will lie on it*