> Some people do so well during courtship and grade themselves as excellent for marriage; forgetting its a different world out there.
It is?

I mean, of course, there'll be some adjustments to come to terms to and all, but if the courtship was really done "so well" as you've put it, then it really Isn't all to different at all. Just some adjustments are required, like coping with the other family, daily paid job, the kids, etc.