Wow...this is deep and on point. Someone said to me one time, people plan so well for the wedding, but fail to prepare for the marriage. I love how you put wedding..
>nuptial ceewmony. That's just it, a ceremony.

Most of what you talked about, don't only need to be discussed after  the wedding,  but even before the wedding. 

Myles monroes said 
>The quality of your singleness determines the quality of your marriage.

We need to learn to prepare for where we are going with the resources available now.
The discipline, the habits, start  working now.

Create the fantasy you want. You can allow surprises before marriage, but not after marriage. Most times , it doesn't go well.changes and surprises will come but it will shake you, depends on how youve preoared to work together.

A couple that has prepared what each wants, but fails to work together will fail.
A couple who jusg start preparing when they say i do, but work together, will suceed.

Marriage is an adventure.  An uncharted territory, he has the light, she has the life, snuff osne out, the other js useless.

Financial and money blueprint is to be considered too. Find an agreement partner.

And note: Marruage is not an escape route for konji or cheating,  you got todeal with yourself.

I love your wisdom zizy, mlre insight to you.