RE: NEED SOME RELATIONSHIP ADVICE || WHAT DO YOU THINK? by burlarj

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hive-105727 · @burlarj · Jul 10 '21

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once you make her feel comfortable as a friend, she won't see the need to date you anymore, you have been friendzoned, in some cases she may decided to make you her bestie with benefit if she doesn't wanna lose you and in some other cases both go their ways if one can't bear the heat of emotions in him anymore.. 

The best thing is to show her the green light now

Ask her if she is in a relationship
Let her know you want to be more than a friend to her
No need to be so direct, take her out on a couple of dates[like twice] and express yourself and what you want...
If it doesn't work out, go your way, don't get used ....

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@blezyn · Jul 10 '21

I don't completely agree with this theory, personally I wouldn't date anyone that's not a friend, if we skip getting to know each other better and jump into the relationship we may end up discovering that we are not good for each other.

 I prefer being friends first before jumping into a relationship, although I agree that there's a window for staying friends before you become completely friendzone but I think getting comfortable with her first is key.



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@burlarj · Jul 10 '21

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Yea some girls prefer dating their friends but most girls get too comfortable with being friends that they don't wanna leave that zone, moreover he said they have been friends for two weeks already, he should not waste more time and let the opportunity slide... And his friends statement about the girl wanting to spend his money is another red flag that he needs to know where he stands in the girl's life asap as not to waste his precious time....

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@blezyn · Jul 10 '21

I understand but his friend statement is just a statement, no evidence to back it up, who knows if he's trying to sabotage them. Also two weeks is not enough time to know a person in my opinion. But it's true if he stays friends for a prolonged time he will get friendzoned



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@starstrings01 · Jul 14 '21

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smile.. you are a funny man. bestie with benefits.... I am not the guy that does benefits stuff though...

Yeah, you are right. I should let her know how I feel so that she would not think I am a normal nice guy and don't have anything for her. And if she does like me, I am sure she would not show it until I make a move.

If it doesn't work out. I would surely use the door and keep it on a normal friends level. Thanks man<div class="pull-right"><a href="/@hive.engage">![](https://i.imgur.com/XsrNmcl.png)</a></div>

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