Well I think not everyone will want to stick with the ups and downs. They rather just castigate and complain and talk about other places they prefer. 

> Few weeks ago someone on hive did something i didn't expect, i felt really bad and i disassociated myself from the person, i block people easily.

Haha, that was really fast. Well it's better than open confrontation which will bring abusive emotions or other things, so I think it's better that way..