"Most" I believe are the larger population and I think many of them are like this except the few that are different and probably godly. 
I'm an advocate for marriage, it's saddening how a lot of people have made marriage (which was supposed to be beautiful) a living hell. 

According to my faith, we're not supposed to not choose marriage, because that's God's ordination. 

I'm sorry for what you went through, it's a very hard thing to experience and I think you wouldn't want to marry. 

Being a person with a chronic illness, I've discovered a lot and to be honest, you discovered a lot being disadvantaged before being married. 

I hope it all gets better because people are mostly in it for the money