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Hello everyone  I am a newbie here on hive,my name is Aida Esgana my hive Username @dadieesgana I would like to share my Introblog story about my marriage.


At first my husband and I is don't have relationship, but I have a small grocery store, because my age growing older and my cousins scares me. I thought I was going beyond the limits of not being able to get married and I was also scared, so one time I had a customer at the store who was having an affair with me and after we had an affair, she immediately reported it to her father,that we already know each other I was surprised that he always gave me big fish, and this one is my favorite, he goes fishing and every night they come back from fishing and bring it fish to me.

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He always gives me fish so I accept it because it's  my favorite And I didn't expect that we had known each other for a month, he didn't even try to have a date with me, and his family loved me so much that when I got close to them, my husband and I became very close.  When we reached one month, we had known each other for one month and he would give us fish for one month and I would receive Tulingan fish. My husband immediately opened up and told me that we could get married.

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We seem at the age of 20's, but I'm older than my husband, he's 24 at the moment and I'm 27.There was a lot of talk and a lot of why I wanted to get married even though he didn't flirt with me. The reason was that he always gave me fish so after we talked I said I wanted to get married.He then told his father and mother about the future, and then his father talked to me about whether his son and I were getting married, and I agreed and immediately said yes.And his dad said that we should get married right away and that our wedding would be grand and I was so happy because our wedding would be grand so there was no need to talk about it.

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I immediately asked my parents to marry me and they agreed.They agreed because I was too old to talk about it. After one year of our marriage, I got pregnant and gave birth. My store was closed and my husband was gone.Their fishing business no longer provides any income to my father because they sold the fishing boats, so we just rely on my husband's brothers to give us food, and we just keep talking.We keep fighting with my husband because he doesn't have a job and he doesn't support me anymore.

His mother is the only one who helped me provides us with food. And when we have a childs, we have 3 children so when I had three children, I immediately had an IUD inserted by the midwife, and that's why I only had 3 children. Then when my youngest was 3 years old, I begged my husband to help me and lend me some money For me to sell anything, I just sell bananaque,Shamporado and halo halo so after 5 months of selling, it was difficult for me Because we were having a hard time because my eldest child  they were in elementary school, and we didn't have enough money to buy food to eat. My husband didn't have any plans to look for a job, so we just put up with it.  In our difficult times, I am the only one who can make sure the children are feed. I don't eat together but if there is excess thats the time i eat, If there is not, I will only drink water, but my husband  make sure he eats to his parents house together with his siblings,

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My husband is always full of food, I just cry always because I feel bad for him My husband and I always fighting because I tell him to look for a job, but he always say, don't tell me to look for a job... I'm the only one who supports our three children, and they suffer."In my hardship, I have a very high wish for my children, that they can go to school until they finish college and have a good job that they can buy and eat delicious food, that they can buy decent clothes they need.

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But my husband is always drinking alcohol will come home drunk and then he will suspect that I have a man. he will say that if I were a man, I wouldn't have to struggle to raise my children. he will say that to me, he is evil. I think about it because he doesn't help me for the daily needs of my children we are always fighting of my husband,and when the kids started in high school I decided to leave.I'm looking for a job in the city. By the grace of God, I got a job at a private school, in the library office, but the salary is small, but it's an advantage because my income is much higher than that of a shopkeeper,So this is the only way I can do. 

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My husband and I agreed that I would work in the city and he said he would agree to work as long as I brought my children with me. I had no choice. I brought them with me.The kids are fine because my older brother gave me a room and I didn't have to pay rent. We just paid for food and water and our allowance, but it's still not enough because there are 4 of us eating. My 3 children and I and my husband stayed in the province and no one came to help us, even if it was just a little bit for school supplies. I never bothered my husband.

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I'm just trying my best for the children. I'm struggling and have a lot of debt at the office and I'm just struggling with my salary. I'm really struggling with my salary this is how my life has progressed since my marriage.

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And now my two children have finished college and are now both working, and by the grace of God, they are not yet married because they still have plans,That they will help their younger brother finishes school and that they will help me with whatever I need.I want to ask for mercy And now they have planned what I want that they will give me and I will wait a long time and I will say what I want, nothing else. Just a house and they have already planned it for me and I will thank them.

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At the top, even with the hardship and bitterness of my fate and what I went through, by the grace of God, my dream came true, even though I don't have a husband But I managed to finish them and put myself through school. Slowly and steadily, over time, I overcome the pains and joys I had experienced in my life. 

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This is what Story of my life, if you don't lose hope, just trust in the Lord because He will provide. If you know how to plant, you will surely reap and you will be rich your dreams.


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##### My Hobbies 

My hobbies are dancing, so I love to dance. Wherever the fiesta contest is, I always go, even if my mom scolds me. When I come back from the dance, I bring something with me.And I'll give my mom money so she can buy us some food,I still love to dance, even today.


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##### Reason for Joining 

The reason I joined the hive is that I want to have my own income and I can also help with my own purchases and I can also help and give milk to my mother. And vitamins and other things that should be bought and other things that should be bought inside At home, that's it.

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##### Who introduce me here

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My fiend @powerpopgirl share this opportunity of hive and she introduced me to sir @jedum who are also onboarded of her, she ask them to guide me here also..thank you sir for guiding us here as a newbies thanks for the patience to guide.

And this is where my life story ends because as I write this I keep crying. Thank you, Lord.🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️
Once again this is @dadieesgana and this is my life story hope you like my Introblog God bless everyone and see you in my next blog. 

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