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It's always an unpleasant feeling when our decision turns out to be negative. Most times, we wish we could turn back the hands of the clock and make a better decision, but unfortunately, it appears impossible. Decision-making is not always an easy task, depending on the situation. I have found myself several times in an indecision mood. **Should I do this or that?** Who knows how things will unfold if I go with alternative A or B? Confusion sets in, but then a decision must be made. It's just part of life that we need to deal with; it's inevitable and funny enough, we face this in our daily activities, just that some decisions can be simpler than others.



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For instance, when I wanted to get married, I was so indecisive! At first, confusion was the order of the day. I wasn't under any pressure to make a decision, but there were lots of factors to evaluate. The world is filled with uncertainties, so we can't predict the outcome of a certain decision. We can only do our part and proceed to make one decision or another. **Even in business and some investments**, some decisions come out favorable, while we sometimes fail with our decisions. However, I will discuss below the few steps I observe when making some decisions.


### The few steps I observe when making decisions

**Understanding the issue**: this is the basic thing I do first. Knowing exactly what the issue is makes analyzing the problem easier. It's more about defining the problem and having a clearer picture of it before taking action.


**Analyze it**: Having defined the problem, I will thoroughly research it to help me make an informed decision. For example, if the decision is about a particular business I have some experience in, I do not hesitate to go further to research to avoid mistakes that could be avoided.
 
**Seek help where necessary**: I do not mind reaching out to someone I know has better experience than me about the issue for advice or a solution. This is not always applicable to many people but sure, it does work fine for me.


**Take action**: This is the last step I take after going through the three lists above. At this point, whatever comes out of my decision, I will know that I played my part.


**How long does it take me to make major decisions?**:  I will say so as long as I find answers or solutions to my problems. I do not like making decisions in haste, at least to lessen some risks, but if the situation isn't a sensitive one, I can think through the issue and decide almost immediately.


### Coping with disappointment


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Things may not go as planned; it's natural, and it hurts when the results of our efforts turn out to be disappointing. However, one of the ways I cope with disappointment is by showing myself a little bit of kindness. Yes, I will try not to be so hard on myself for my mental health. I try to **treat the situation as one of my learning experiences and reduce my expectations for my future dealings**. Finally getting support from a close friend or family member to help me walk through the phase appears to be helpful so far.


*In conclusion,*

**Taking decisions on certain issues looks risky, but approaching the situation step by step may lessen the risk and probably yield a good result in the end**.


*Thanks for reading through my thoughts on this subject*.

*Do well to stay positive always* 🤗
 
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