RE: Beside Toothlessness by boboman

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hive-166408 · @boboman · Dec 7 '22

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I think the last two years of Covid and lockdowns have changed a lot of people's behaviours and motivation. You having a stroke compounds it and will definitely affect your outlook and how you view the future. This is quite evident in lots of your posts. 

On the faking part, we all do it, especially to colleagues and acquittances, occasionally to family. But I think with family, we should be honest. You took the first step with being honest with yourself, now you need to be honest with your family. Remember, it's ok to not be ok - This is from an Imagine Dragons song. 

Stay well friend!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W_yRODJ6kfc

👍 tarazkp

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@tarazkp · Dec 8 '22

The okay to not be okay thing is a challenge for me. Competence is one of the things I value in myself and others, but I am far more forgiving on others than I am on myself. 

I think one of the things I need to do is force myself to reconnect with friends that I have lost touch with over the last few years. I have tried, but it often feels like people are content locking themselves away now.

👍 boboman

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@boboman · Dec 8 '22

It can be hard to be kind to ourselves when we are brought up with stuff like "no pain, no gain" and shit like "if you are not moving forward, you are moving backwards". If we learn to be contented in what we have, hopefully we would need less and appreciate more. I am trying to do this more so my daughter will learn to be like that and not be so hard on herself when things go wrong.

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