I burst out laughing and then had to read out your opening paragraph to J who then replied

> not gonna lie, that's kind of what it was like shopping

He then described to me the last grocery shopping trip he went on not too long ago XD But other than that get stuffed o'clock in the morning (which is when he goes) is apparently also a good time.

I'm still a bit clueless with the crypto stuff, J has the hardware wallets.  I'm thingi about my backups though and currently there's panic and chaos (at least inside my head) because my backup drives are going to fill up before I can get new ones aaaaaaaargh.