?Friends?...I was like what friends, I don't personally know these people.  It still feels a bit weird to click on it, I refer to it as blogships.  Even on FB it's extremely rare I friend someone I don't know.  Not that I hadn't back in the beginning but soon found digging through tons of post to actually find real life friends was a daunting task.  But yeah at first I was like you, where'd everything go?  how will I figure this out?  if I click on this what will happen? will I ever see the usual fellow bloggers again? if I click on this community thing will I find anybody I know?  what if somebody is in that group who doesn't like me?  how will that effect the standing among the other community members?....a whole host of fifty questions, think how relieved I was when I finally found the courage to click on friends and found everything listed there that disappeared.