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Great article @tarazkp, As someone who is in long recovery from alcohol and cocaine, my stance is this: I'm more than willing to help someone who wants to get clean, but I am also perceptive to knowing when a person really wants it for themselves and are willing to put in the necessary work without criticizing the advice of someone who's found sobriety. I've had to walk away from more than a few people who were dragging me down. On the same token I stood by the sides of men who were truly trying, and ended up dying from their addiction, but because they gave it 100% effort in a humble manner, I would not turn my back on them. Addiction comes in many different forms of course. The addict in me might be addicted to other *(less harmful)* things now. It's a matter of perspective. Consumerism based society depends on addiction. A man like you comprehends this no doubt. It's within our nature and human responsibility to one another to make sacrifices in charitable ways, we just need to maintain a level of perceptiveness with how much of our life is affected in negative ways when we try to help, measure accordingly and do our best. Have a nice day :)
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>As someone who is in long recovery from alcohol and cocaine Great to hear you are in recovery :) >but because they gave it 100% effort in a humble manner, I would not turn my back on them. This I completely understand. >The addict in me might be addicted to other (less harmful) things now. It's a matter of perspective. Consumerism based society depends on addiction. A man like you comprehends this no doubt. We are all addicted to something. Some are substances, some are materials, some ideas, some the past, some in the desire for heaven or enlightenment. But, all will cause suffering of some kind, so e have to try and find a way to channel our addictions into more meaningful pursuit perhaps. >we just need to maintain a level of perceptiveness with how much of our life is affected in negative ways when we try to help, measure accordingly and do our best. Our lives and the lives of others. I had a father who helped a lot of people, often to the detriment of his family. It was part of his addiction profile and is selfish in its own way. Thanks for adding your thoughts here on this and sharing what is quite personal. Have a great week!
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Thank you kindly for the response. Yeah I get what you mean about channeling our addictions into something meaningful. This is what I'm trying to do with my new 3D printing addiction :D > Our lives and the lives of others. I had a father who helped a lot of people, often to the detriment of his family. It was part of his addiction profile and is selfish in its own way. This is quite an insight. I have a friend who is addicted to helping/saving others, and *very* pushy about it with her opinions, to the point where I have to limit my interactions because this obsession clouds her ability to see how it's actually abusive in some ways! Thank you also for reflecting and sharing your personal experiences on this topic. I'll try to stop by more often, I'm trying to get more ~~addicted~~ active on Hive again. Have a great week as well! :)
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I have only been involved with 3D Printing as an observer, but it looks like a lot of fun :) Some people don't recognize the damage that they are doing when they are "helping" - some know exactly. What I find interesting on Hive for example, is when people are constantly complaining about whatever it is, they see themselves as adding perspective. However, they make the assumption that they are the only ones who are doing so from that perspective. I think this is because a lot of people don't actually interact much in the real world these days. For me, I don't surround myself with idiots, yes-men or people who universally agree with me and, I am not only talking to people on Hive. Welcome back any time :)
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