I get your points here and the basis behind, but why so judgmental and bringing-their-Moms-into-it here? It almost feels like this a direct shaming and projection of some sort to backhand strangers who may not be stable during tough times, and are frustrated for not being able to succeed as others seem to consistently do with the nod from large stakeholders. 

Yes, someone should leave if it’s not healthy for them, but the  “don’t let the door hit you on the way out” and “why haven’t you left yet” vibes aren’t exactly the best way to go about it when you’ve be made here. Stay on that high road!!