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RE: Arcade game and street food | A fun Sunday. by dswigle

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· @dswigle ·
Sound delicious!!! 

You shouldn't feel bad, we simply cannot give a child everything they ask for, no matter how good they are or how fun it looks. They learn how to be patient and not so expectant that life revolves around them. I never buy things at the checkout line, where they put candy bars and little toys. I have bought things, but, not when they are there and never when they ask for them. Haarsh, right? Not really. It is more of a surprise when I bring something home or buy it in the store unexpectantly. So they never asked for anything. I had three kids and it was my way of crowd control.  :)

I have moved my entire adult life because of work, and I truly understand. While your son will miss his old friends, I found that the kids were more upbeat if I like a place, they seem to work off our feelings. He probably feels a little guilt about his new friends, and leaving the others behind. I used to have the kids send letters every so ofter to keep in touch, even though they all had phones, a litter was kind of cool from your friend. I know, old school, but, I still write letters on occasion. 

I know, unsolicited advice, I apologize!

I hope your weekend was wonderful!
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@rem-steem ·
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No, never apologize for your advice. I so love to follow your words. 
I too don't buy from the checkout countertop though they looks lucrative and sometimes kids asks for them. But no, I have already bought what I need to; same as your process ☺️☺️
My son have video called his old friends a few times and now, he doesn't show much interest. I think it's better for his little heart to forget what he left behind and move on for the best.
I agree, writing letters sounds great but I personally never did that/didn't had the chance as I grew up with mobile phone since my teen years. But sure, it can feel much better to express ourselves in some handwritten letters. 
Thanks for your advice and sharing your experience. It means a lot to me. 
Have a।good day 🌿☀️
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@dswigle ·
Cell phones were around, samexas now. My mom felt like it would be a dying art if not passed on. My kids still write to my aunt at holidays, in a card. It makes their day and it is always a surprisevto them. 

Thank you! ❤️
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@rem-steem ·
That's great. However, we pass short letters, for example, cards and 'Love messages' now and then but not any elaborative notes so far. I will give it a try, it sounds like a good idea. :) :)
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