>Also if you get reprimanded for doing something that you know is frowned upon, then you have no right to complain when you get caught.

Yep. But these types twist reality to fit their story. Like "they downvote all of my posts" even though that is not the case and the reason has been stated. 

>I acknowledged my mistake and apologized to her - because I was in the wrong and I own my shit.

It isn't hard to mend fences, but discussion is needed, not attack. 

>Then to take it a step further and dig their heels in in righteous indignation which is totally unjustified just irks me.

Yep and the "going public" at the start with private information or conversation. I don't get - it is like pressing the nuclear button  - there is no reset option. 

>Doxxing is just another form of bullying.

Yes. The hypocrisy is *real.*