| json_metadata | "{"app":"musing/1.1","appTags":["voice","lower"],"appCategory":"voice","appTitle":"How to ask someone to lower his voice?","appBody":"<p>1. Know his background. Culture plays a role on how a person communicates. Know something about his family history. A family that frequently screams at each other will naturally form unwanted habits noticeable when they interact outside. Sometimes the loud tones are a means to communicate what they are used to. </p>\n<p>2. Know the logic behind the raised tone. If it is hinted with anger, understand that anger is a manifestation when someone is not in control. So if they raise their voice, it might mean that they perceive the situation as being out of their control. </p>\n<p>3. Going back to 1, there are people who speak louder than others but this doesn't mean they are angry. It's just how they are used to communicating on their place. I know have encountered several patients that I initially thought was toxic only to realize that this is how they really talk naturally. Don't take it personal. </p>\n<p>4. Ask if the person intends to raise their voice. Sometimes they are not even aware they are doing it. </p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"p36xb7zzq","appParentAuthor":"sm-goldies","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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