| json_metadata | "{"app":"musing/1.1","appTags":["life","love"],"appCategory":"life","appTitle":"Does unconditional love exist?","appBody":"<p>When your love is unconditional, nothing can tear it asunder. What exists is the both you as one body incapable of error, ageless, timeless, and forever. New lovers are intoxicated by the overwhelming mutual feelings and emotion between them and by the potent chemical cocktail that results. But here's what you have to know, unconditional love is a romantic illusion, and one that reflects love that is immature. This is love that is ignorant of the levels of life, of marriage, and personal development. Unconditional love is unsophisticated and ignorant that Stronger relationships result when two strong individuals combine or have mutual feelings for each other.</p><p>Unconditional love is quite eaay, no decision making or responsibility is necessary. Love has no boundaries or endings when it's unconditional. But the real world is conditional there are reactions to actions and repercussions too. </p><p>Each of us has at least one marital condition in mind; fidelity, honesty, loyalty, and truth. If partners agree and conclude on the concepts, do they agree on how they look in practice? Be let known of how you came to believe what you do about unconditional love. Talk with each other thoroughly and often, carving nothing in stone. Read on to learn how relationships change.</p><p>Who you were in the past isn't who you are now</p><p>Moving through time, changing with circumstances, most of which are unpredictable, chances are good that each of you has awakened to thoughts, feelings, expectations, and assumptions about your relationship that makes your role different, unworkable, misunderstood, confusing, or unheard.</p><p>Build a solid foundation for your relationship</p><p>It's just not true that all you need is love. Success demands we know what we're doing; proficiency comes with practice. You didn't become proficient at your job without learning and continuing to upgrade your skills. Having and using skills means the toolbox is there when something breaks.</p><p>Prepare yourself and your relationship for uncertainty, change and growth</p><p>How we adjust to change isn't always smooth or easy. Love-blind couples are unprepared, surprised even, when life happens in the form of illness, joblessness, or family of origin demands. Realignment takes communication and work.</p><p>Manage your expectations</p><p>There is no such thing as \"the one\". But when relationship ups and downs happen, a lot of us get nervous and believe we've made the wrong choice. What did you expect? Partners manage change by looking inward before blaming outward. Love by itself doesn't conquer all.</p><p>Personal boundaries create healthy togetherness</p><p>You're you . That's what was attractive in the first place. We think the way to true love is to lose ourselves in the other. All that earns is eventual resentment and lots of identity problems. In truth, intact partners provide the pillars that make a relationship strong.</p><p>Take responsibility</p><p>Unconditional love reflects new love; when the rubber meets the road, love is never enough. Being a success at marriage, or anything, requires that skill is supported by commitment and practice.</p><p>The concepts of \"uncondtional love\" is ravishing but as we know, real relationships and love require work. It is only after you've gone through the work with your partner that you can have an truthful view into your love for each other.</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"p3eajtkwp","appParentAuthor":"anarchy999","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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