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| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["Relationship"],"appCategory":"Relationship","appBody":"<p>Lies, distrust and envy are the three pillars of unhappiness. There is nothing positive when the three of them are inside your acts and thoughts. In any area of life, and especially in a relationship, those three maxims are what lead you to stay on the path that you followed together.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>I have always thought that relationships are to improve each other, to arrive with two bodies where one can not. Two add more than one, but in the same way, if you choose inappropriately, it can also be contraindicated and total a sum with a result equal to zero.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>I believe that I am not mistaken if I affirm that we have all suffered and suffered some of the three pillars that I commented on, so let us affirm: we are victims and aggressors of lies, distrust and envy. In this way, I can affirm the title that has led you to read these lines.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>And yes, I prefer to be alone than to be with someone suffering because I do not trust her or do not trust me, because I have to lie or lie to me or because I envy her and I can not be free. \"Worth more alone than badly accompanied\" as quoted in the Celestina or in any popular proverb. It is easy to say, but in many conversations you hear phrases that indicate the opposite.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>There are relationships in which the two love each other but do not love each other together, relationships in which problems arise when they move away from each other, because there is no trust, and that translates into lies and envy. Until one day, if they do not remedy, they will say enough; they will miss each other, they will remember all the good times together and they will regret all the separated ones.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>Let it be clear: in life, one has to be sure of oneself and not live constantly asking for forgiveness or at the expense of what another person may be doing or distrusting. Be yourself and they will love you for how you are.</p>\n<p>Someone you can not trust is not made for you, I can be a romantic or a dreamer, but I believe that in love there can not be any of the three words mentioned. The lie drags you, causes mistrust once it is uncovered and deteriorates the relationship to unsuspected and never deserved limits. As Napoleon said, envy, simply, is a declaration of inferiority.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>A healthy relationship is one that does not understand problems or, at least, spouses do not exist. That relationship that should be an extension of your person to something better. To do otherwise would be something as if we were lying to ourselves and destroying ourselves on the inside for double value. The sum of two legs with drama squared.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>Why do I lie or lie to me? Why is there distrust and envy? If you ask yourself this, that person is probably not right for you, or what is much simpler, you are not for her. To paraphrase James de la Vega \"life destroys weak relationships\", because two people together can be loved, but it will be the circumstances of life, trust, blind love and the (co) -reason, which will determine if they can fly together from that runway that carries an engine with love fuel.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>Do not try to be who you do not want to be, to distrust and think about what is really not happening or to envy because you have not been able to dispose. If you ever have to love me, that is with sincerity, enough of bad faces, uncomfortable silences and monosyllabic answers, tell me about your problems and I will solve them. And if I can not, I will listen to you and I will tell you, I do not intend to add any more.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>Acting with mistrust you can only make the relationship a sinvivir, put a sword of Dámocles in the heart. Always waiting for some error, always ready to the slightest failure to vomit everything that took you time hanging around in your head.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>A relationship with distrust is a hindrance, so if you allow me advice, if there is a simple reason that has made you distrust, try to understand it and, if you believe in his words think that the good lived overcomes the bad experience, then forgive it by observing who has made efforts to change what led him to make the mistake. We can all fail once because to err is human but to forgive is divine.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>I prefer to live a complicated life than a lie that makes me live an unreal world: the first will make me stronger, the second can lead me to complete existential failure.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>So please, no more lies, the road is long and there may be many obstacles. For that reason, do not put more sticks to the wheels, if I trust you it is because you are the riskiest bet that I have made.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>The clear things, the thick chocolate and life to enjoy, together or accompanied, but always sure of ourselves.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>The next time you come, do not forget to forget the distrust, two of us are welcome, but those three concepts are a multitude in my heart.</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"fkc5hhbhx","appParentAuthor":"namasico","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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