| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["Destiny"],"appCategory":"Destiny","appTitle":"How can someone create their own destiny?","appBody":"<p><br></p>\n<p><img src=\"https://static.independent.co.uk/s3fs-public/thumbnails/image/2014/10/29/17/web-billionaire-RF-getty-c-v2.jpg\" /></p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>Good opportunities do not usually fall from the sky. To realize our deepest yearnings, we must work day by day on our goals. Many people come to old women feeling that they are full of regrets for not knowing how to plan their lives. To help you achieve everything you propose, we present the 7 keys to create your own destiny, published by the portal inc.com</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>PLAN YOUR FUTURE</p>\n<p>Although life is full of unexpected events, it is important that you establish short and long-term goals. These objectives are what will give you the motivation to be productive in all your activities.</p>\n<p> BE PRAGMATIC</p>\n<p>Do not be proud of getting impossible things. To achieve your goals you must be aware of both your abilities and your limitations. Do not waste time and energy trying to become something that you are not in essence.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>DECIDE WHO YOU WANT TO BE, AND NOT WHAT YOU WANT TO DO</p>\n<p>If you focus on discovering what kind of person you want to become, it will be easier for you to find a way to achieve what you set out to do. Remember that at the end of your life material things will no longer matter and you will only have the image you have of yourself.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF AND WITH OTHERS</p>\n<p>Incursion in lies or self-deception does not lead anywhere. Eventually, the truth always comes to light and you will lose the trust of the people around you.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>ACCEPT THE CRITICISMS</p>\n<p>Nobody can build their destiny in solitude. The returns and advice that your friends and family give you, even if you do not want to listen to them, can be a fundamental guide for you to achieve success in any area of life.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>STAY AWAY FROM NEGATIVISM</p>\n<p>Just as it is important that you listen to your loved ones, you must learn to stay away from envious people who want to fill you with negativism.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>DO NOT CONFORM WITH MEDIOCRITY</p>\n<p>Many people are satisfied with the easy thing instead of committing 100% their energy and ability to be successful. The only problem is that they will then feel a huge frustration. Do not stop chasing your dreams and exploit to the limit all your potential to create your destiny.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>Taking responsibility for oneself is not easy, especially when living with stigmas of childhood. But for many, that is the easiest way to live, it is what makes them feel in their comfort zone. \"That's how they raised me and that's why I behave in this way.\"</p>\n<p> </p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>Certainly, becoming an adult implies taking responsibility for oneself. You can not blame the teachers for not teaching you what you should now know; Well if you need some knowledge, now you can learn it for yourself. Nor can you blame the childhood companions for the bad habits that do not let you get ahead, because if you bring some harmful habit that affects you in your current adult life, you are the only one who can change it.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p><img src=\"http://i.huffpost.com/gen/1298090/images/o-WEALTHY-facebook.jpg\" /></p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>The past can not stop you</p>\n<p>Certainly, the past influences your current life. But if you are able to detect the root of the problem, confront it and you will see that everything starts to flow. Stop blaming the past for what happens to you in the present. And if you really are unable to overcome it, seek professional help and you will see that no complex or trauma is insurmountable. Perhaps some are more difficult to solve, but with time, and the necessary help, we are all able to overcome yesterday's problems that affect us.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>Many times, what binds you to the past causes you great pain and paralyzes you, does not allow you to place yourself in the present. If during your childhood you never tired of repeating that you were \"fat\", or \"silly\", or \"useless\" (or any other adjective with the intention of disqualifying yourself), it is sure that you have recorded it and it makes you To think that it is natural for you to be like that, even if you do not like now that you are an adult. But that does not mean you should keep that belief for the rest of your life. You can change if you propose.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>Maturing, growing and changing</p>\n<p>The process of adulthood involves maturing, growing and changing. Your stage as an adult should not be negative just because your childhood was. Changing the labels we carry can cost a lot of work, but in the long run, positive thinking leads to a proactive change and this makes self-love and acceptance grow.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>Although many people remember their childhood as one of the best stages of their life, others, unfortunately, remember it as a disgrace. That can not be changed, but when you mature, you have the tools to build and rebuild your life, because you no longer depend on anyone to create your own present. One creates it. That means leaving bad experiences in the past and taking responsibility for oneself.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>Excuses and incompetencies</p>\n<p>There are also people who hide behind in the past, not because they have necessarily been so bad, but because they do not find the courage to change and assume their responsibility as adults.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>The fears are not insurmountable, although it is always easier to say that you were educated as a child to face your disability or ignorance. Just remember that nobody can move from your comfort zone more than your own actions. Sometimes the same fear is motivating, it's just a matter of you proposing it.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>Overcoming the obstacles that hold you back from moving forward is something that could determine your existence and nothing is truer than this affirmation: only you are the master of your own destiny.</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"pk7mnp2dx","appParentAuthor":"iscobet9ja","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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