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| author | cryptoandcoffee |
|---|---|
| permlink | f3mwmnnzq |
| category | musing-threads |
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| created | 2019-01-03 22:21:03 |
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| author | alaisguineasis |
|---|---|
| permlink | fkzhkkkaw |
| category | musing-threads |
| json_metadata | "{"app":"musing/1.1","appTags":["life"],"appCategory":"life","appTitle":"Do you hold grudges or just leave them in the past?","appBody":"<p>No! I seldom hold grudges . Nevertheless, I do a retrospect of the circumstance and make an inference thereby.</p><p>If such action is premeditated to harm , I would place the offender on a distance and special watch , while not keeping grudges. I would even take a proactive action to win him over, albeit cautiously.</p><p>If the action is observed innocuous as not meditated upon but accident; I will never give a damn or hoot thereafter. This is because, mistakes are bound to happen.</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"f3mwmnnzq","appParentAuthor":"cryptoandcoffee","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
| created | 2019-01-03 22:48:06 |
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| author | ijoel |
|---|---|
| permlink | p37c2s3sq |
| category | musing-threads |
| json_metadata | "{"app":"musing/1.1","appTags":["life"],"appCategory":"life","appTitle":"Do you hold grudges or just leave them in the past?","appBody":"<p>No, I have never grudged anyone because I have no enemy in this world. Although if there is someone who hurts my feelings, I will always forgive them sincerely without saving any revenge in my heart.</p>\n<p>As a human being who is not free from mistakes and sins, I will continue to self-reflect what I did to make people angry and hate me and even hostile to me. But what are the conditions and how they behave to me, I cannot be hostile and resentful towards them.</p>\n<p>I also adhere to the concept that forgiveness before other people apologize is far better than forgiving when they apologize. It means that I have forgiven those who hurt my feelings before they apologized to me.</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"f3mwmnnzq","appParentAuthor":"cryptoandcoffee","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
| created | 2019-01-04 03:15:15 |
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|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| igram | 0 | 291,787,412 | 4.22% | ||
| reazuliqbal | 0 | 3,307,821,171 | 3% | ||
| kkkkkl | 0 | 0 | 5% |
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| author | ijoel |
|---|---|
| permlink | p38r2aksw |
| category | musing-threads |
| json_metadata | "{"app":"musing/1.1","appTags":["life"],"appCategory":"life","appTitle":"Do you hold grudges or just leave them in the past?","appBody":"<p> No, I have never grudged anyone because I have no enemy in this world. Although if there is someone who hurts my feelings, I will always forgive them sincerely without saving any revenge in my heart.</p>\n<p>As a human being who is not free from mistakes and sins, I will continue to self-reflect what I did to make people angry and hate me and even hostile to me. But what are the conditions and how they behave to me, I cannot be hostile and resentful towards them.</p>\n<p>I also adhere to the concept that forgiveness before other people apologize is far better than forgiving when they apologize. It means that I have forgiven those who hurt my feelings before they apologized to me.</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"f3mwmnnzq","appParentAuthor":"cryptoandcoffee","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
| created | 2019-01-04 03:16:03 |
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|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| ijoel | 0 | 9,141,621,446 | 100% | ||
| igram | 0 | 291,504,117 | 4.22% | ||
| reazuliqbal | 0 | 3,306,401,142 | 3% | ||
| kkkkkl | 0 | 0 | 5% | ||
| puwelwol | 0 | 0 | 5% |
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| author | kamchore |
|---|---|
| permlink | p3rhzaksq |
| category | musing-threads |
| json_metadata | "{"app":"musing/1.1","appTags":["life"],"appCategory":"life","appTitle":"Do you hold grudges or just leave them in the past?","appBody":"<p>The best possibility is to leave your grudges in the past. Carrying your grudges along with you never help you. In fact it disturbs you. What ever have been done have done. We have to move on. Grudges not only make you discomfort but it also enforce you negative thinking about particular person which is not good for future relaionship. I am not advocating to make good relationship with the people who cheated you but I am also against making some one enemy</p><p> There is no need to trust such people. But at least you don't need to carry a load of grudges along with you. </p><p>It is difficult to forget all but forgetting is the most beneficial for humans in this situation</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"f3mwmnnzq","appParentAuthor":"cryptoandcoffee","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
| created | 2019-01-04 02:21:57 |
| last_update | 2019-01-04 02:21:57 |
| depth | 2 |
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| voter | weight | wgt% | rshares | pct | time |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| fbook | 0 | 319,081,146 | 4.18% | ||
| kkkkkl | 0 | 0 | 5% | ||
| musing | 0 | 431,721,913,989 | 1% | ||
| mixr | 0 | 1,148,688,801 | 10% |
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| author | nancybriti |
|---|---|
| permlink | f3jkcs3aq |
| category | musing-threads |
| json_metadata | "{"app":"musing/1.1","appTags":["life"],"appCategory":"life","appTitle":"Do you hold grudges or just leave them in the past?","appBody":"<p><br></p>\n<p><img src=\"https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRbjGY71zQTDUSTYIV3JCcuNO3ez76InjgTwMptz66ciwQksxR9\" /></p>\n<p>I have to say, unfortunately I did before. It was a person who remembered all the bad things he did to me, that in the slightest neglect of the other person, I reminded him how badly he had done to me. Many times people around me even asked me how I could remember that, if it had happened a long time ago, and I felt good remembering those negative thoughts and actions. </p>\n<p>But one day, I remember that my head started to hurt a lot. I was having a family problem at the time, so I went to the doctor and he checked me without apparently finding anything harmful, but he referred me to a psychologist anyway. At first I was reluctant to visit him, but then, convinced by my family and friends, I went to the appointment.</p>\n<p>This experience has been one of the most enriching I have ever had. One of the things I remember is that she looked at my hands and asked me why they were closed. Never in my life had I realized that I kept my hands closed, made a fist, as if at war with life. Another thing was that it touched my back and it hurt a lot, I remember she massaged me and told me to put the sack aside. What's in it,\" I asked. And she said to me: the sack that you carry with you and where you put everything bad that people do to you or happen to you. That sack is the one that makes you sick and bent.</p>\n<p>I think that carrying those negative things, only harm you. Only snakes carry their poison and do not die. Negative feelings not only make you unhappy, they can also make you sick. So learn to let go, to smile, and especially, to forget. Life is just one to lose in living the past and bitter. Let's live the present and grateful</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"f3mwmnnzq","appParentAuthor":"cryptoandcoffee","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
| created | 2019-01-04 02:14:18 |
| last_update | 2019-01-04 02:14:18 |
| depth | 2 |
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| cashout_time | 1969-12-31 23:59:59 |
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| root_title | "Musing Posts" |
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| post_id | 77,839,386 |
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| author_curate_reward | "" |
| voter | weight | wgt% | rshares | pct | time |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| bulimbabitch | 0 | 389,119,090 | 4.17% | ||
| igram | 0 | 286,352,495 | 4.17% | ||
| kkkkkl | 0 | 0 | 5% | ||
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| mixr | 0 | 1,152,124,520 | 10% |
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| author | rabiujaga |
|---|---|
| permlink | pkqyk33aw |
| category | musing-threads |
| json_metadata | "{"app":"musing/1.1","appTags":["life"],"appCategory":"life","appTitle":"Do you hold grudges or just leave them in the past?","appBody":"<p>Oh my my. I was once well known for holding grudges. People used to call me a wicked soul and ugly and old and wrinkled. Keeping grudges actually made me bitter and I couldn't make decisions, good decisions with a bitter heart. So I had to let it go. I had to outgrow it...</p><p>Keeping grudges is bad for you, all it does is stain your soul and makes you bitter. And now after deciding never to hold grudges anymore, I have gotten more handsome, a better thinker, a better lover, a better son, a better brother, a better citizen and a better soul. Stop holding grudges and you will make a difference through your thought pattern</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"f3mwmnnzq","appParentAuthor":"cryptoandcoffee","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
| created | 2019-01-03 22:45:57 |
| last_update | 2019-01-03 22:45:57 |
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| fbook | 0 | 299,583,564 | 4.03% | ||
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