| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["failure"],"appCategory":"failure","appTitle":"How do you define failure?","appBody":"<p>In my opinion, failure is only a point of view, a judgment.</p>\n<p><img src=\"https://centreprendre.hypotheses.org/files/2016/01/success-failure-672x372.jpg\" /></p>\n<p>Indeed, failure is absolutely not objective but rather subjective. The same result can be interpreted differently depending on each person's experience.</p>\n<p>I take my path as an example: when I separated from the father of my children and I announced it, people often looked at me with difficulty, adding even sometimes \"Oh my poor! Alone with three children it must be hard. .. \"But why such a reaction? I was very happy that way, and every time I smiled and said that this situation suited me perfectly, people smiled in turn, because I turned my experience, which was perceived by others as a failure, into a positive result.</p>\n<p>In reality, the other projects his own fear, his pain and finally his own judgment on the situation. So if being alone with your children is a source of anxiety for someone, it makes sense for them to feel and express their fear through my experience. While for me, this situation is not a failure, but something that suits me well.</p>\n<p>Therefore today, when I meet single people, I do not feel pain for them, on the contrary, it brings back good memories. But I agree very well that some suffer from this situation, until they perceive it as a failure.</p>\n<p>All is only point of view. Free to consider our experiences as a failure or not. This word is we who choose to stick it to our experiences, and in detaching it from my experience, the people who initially were painful for me, suddenly became happy for me. By transforming my own experience positively, I changed their vision, their judgment.</p>\n<p>A child who learns to walk will fall hundreds of times before he or she succeeds. At each fall it will not be said it's a failure! Failure does not exist for the child because he does not judge and judge himself. He tries, he observes, he creates, he modifies, he tries again, he laughs, he cries and no matter the result, because he LIVES. Life is that: to experiment.</p>\n<p>If we call some of our chess proofs, it is up to us to change the angle of view to remove that label.</p>\n<p>It is true that finding the result of a rather negative experience leads us to call this a failure, but it is much more effective to erase that word forever and to interpret things differently, to get away from everything. judgment on ourselves and others. Accept what is, objectively, while simply learning from our experiences. Because, when we understand the message, nothing is ever lost, which puts an end to failure.</p>\n<p>Indeed, if one systematically learns something from an experience, there can be no failures, there are only inspiring results.</p>\n<p><strong>As Nelson Mandela rightly said: \"I never lose, either I win or I learn\".</strong></p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"pknhmee9x","appParentAuthor":"jassennessaj","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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