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| author | eddie23 |
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| author | ijoel |
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| permlink | p33r38vaq |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"musing/1.1","appTags":["Relationship","love","life","question"],"appCategory":"Relationship","appTitle":"Don't marry the person you love, Love the person you marry. What's the difference?","appBody":"<p><strong>Don't marry the person you love, Love the person you marry. It's clearly there is a difference.</strong></p>\n<p><strong>1) Don't marry the person you love</strong></p>\n<p>This sentence shows the prohibition against marrying someone you love. It means that marriage is not necessarily because of a love. Marriage can be held without a love relationship first.</p>\n<p>In a marriage contract only is required:</p>\n<p>1. there is a bride and groom</p>\n<p>2. There is a fair guardian (father / grandfather of the bride)</p>\n<p>3. There are two just witnesses</p>\n<p>4. There is an shighat (sayings indicate to bind two people in a marriage bond)</p>\n<p>So getting married is not necessarily the person we love.</p>\n<p><strong>2) Love the person you marry</strong></p>\n<p>This second sentence shows the meaning of the command to love someone we have married.</p>\n<p>As if in this sentence there is an important meaning is implied, namely \"building love above marriage rather than building marriage above love\". </p>\n<p>Simply, we can say love (dating) after marriage is better than love (dating) before marriage.</p>\n<p>Thanks</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"f3ueuhvsw","appParentAuthor":"eddie23","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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| author | jplaughing |
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| permlink | fk422ltaq |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"musing/1.1","appTags":["Relationship","love","life","question"],"appCategory":"Relationship","appTitle":"Don't marry the person you love, Love the person you marry. What's the difference?","appBody":"<p>Sounds like something you'd teach your kid if you want to arrange a marriage for them and all you care about is status.</p><p>\"Don't worry Honey, you will learn to Love them. Think of it as of an opportunity for you and your family.\"</p><p>I don't know. </p><p>It just really smells like it to me.</p><p>I'm sure someone can have a rationalization of how this is actually a profound ideal. </p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"f3ueuhvsw","appParentAuthor":"eddie23","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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| author | rem-steem |
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| permlink | f3m527vaq |
| category | musing-threads |
| json_metadata | "{"app":"musing/1.1","appTags":["Relationship","love","life","question"],"appCategory":"Relationship","appTitle":"Don't marry the person you love, Love the person you marry. What's the difference?","appBody":"<p>Love does not always works in a similar way. There are many ups and down in a loving relationship. It is nearly impossible to love someone in the same way for long time. As we are human and we live a social life. So there comes many struggle and obstacles in our life. Also our relationship does not go smoothly as we have different emotions. So it's very normal to not feel the love same way for the same person. There is nothing wrong with that. But the thing is we often understand that fact when we got old and mature. </p>\n<p>The saying is the truth I believe 'Don't marry the person you love, Love the person you marry.' The difference between the two phases is- we often get married our loved one and after few years or so we does not feel the love anymore. Because we does not work on our love, we did not care for nourishing it, we did not try to make a beautiful relationship. </p>\n<p>We used to think that as we are marrying our loved one so our married love life would be beautiful. But this is very wrong. Being in love with the same person for long time is difficult if we don't work on this. </p>\n<p>It is more hard to be in love the person after marriage. As two persons live together there comes many pros and cons in that relationships, many responsibilities, understanding, communication and so on. If we does not give attention to that our love will fade out. So it is very much important to work on this things rather marrying the loved one. </p>\n<p>Marrying the loved one is easy but loving the married one is more difficult. You can marry the loved one but you have to work on your relationship life long to feel the love in the same way. </p>\n<p>I hope it helps!</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"f3ueuhvsw","appParentAuthor":"eddie23","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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