If your mother goes away forever and returns to God, will you feel this world is empty? by erikah

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musing-threads · @erikah · Dec 2 '18 (edited)

$1.27

If your mother goes away forever and returns to God, will you feel this world is empty?

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@owner99 · Dec 2 '18

If your mother goes away forever and returns to God, will you feel this world is empty?

<p>Thank you, my sister, @erikah, your attention is really very good in beautiful sentences. Unfortunately, I have lost my mother and my mother-in-law. They have now been with God in heaven. I can only pray for them, may all their goodness in life, be a vehicle to a beautiful paradise. amen</p>

👍 erikah, fbook

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@erikah · Dec 2 '18

$0.03

If your mother goes away forever and returns to God, will you feel this world is empty?

<p>That is really sad, my condolences @owner99 but you're strong and only time will heal the wounds.  </p>

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@owner99 · Dec 2 '18

Thank you for your attention @erikah

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