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| author | erikah |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["respect","fear","philosophy"],"appCategory":"respect","appTitle":"Would you prefer to be respected or feared?","appBody":"<p>I'd prefer to be respected, most definitely not feared!!!</p><p>Respect must be earned and having people's respect is a wonderful thing! Respect can bring you so many benefits in life!</p><p>To be feared is not good in any way. I understand that there are cases in which this is inevitable but still. Making someone to fear you can't and won't bring you respect, nor any other good things. I can tell you that from experience! </p><p>Be the best of yourself, earn people's respect and you'll have a lot of friends! </p><p>Make people fear you and you'll have a lot of enemies. </p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"p3bnsl795","appParentAuthor":"golddeejay","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
| created | 2018-11-01 03:28:03 |
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| author | francistagbo |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["respect","fear","philosophy"],"appCategory":"respect","appTitle":"Would you prefer to be respected or feared?","appBody":"<p>I think the answer to this depends on where I live and in what situation I find myself in. Under normal circumstances I think respect would be the better option because when people respect you, they can still approach you and talk to you. It just implies that you're wise enough of knowledgeable enough or established enough in a particular area of life that they just have to pay you that homage.</p><p>Being respected is far more valuable than being feared because with respect you earn it, not by making people scared and not by intimidation, but by the things you've done and by the way you live your life. The thing with respect is that it's involuntary, you don't ask people to respect you and you don't force it on them, your actions are what make people respect you.</p><p>Now with fear it's a whole different ball game entirely, fear and respect are actually pretty similar, but there's one key difference. You can't make people respect you, but you can definitely make people fear you. If I was in prison and I needed people to stay away from me so that I could do my time in peace then I'd look for a way to make people fear me, because that's the only way they'll leave you be.</p><p>Being feared is only useful when you want to be able to control people, I can't see any other reason why I'd want to be feared if not that and since I'm a generally free minded person there'd be no need for that.</p><p>A couple of days ago I answered a question about whether or not I'd like to be famous in life or never be forgotten when I die. I chose to be remembered when I die and between being feared and being respected, I think it's the latter that will ensure that you're never forgotten because if you're feared then people will be quick to get rid of your memory, but if you're respected, then you lifestyle and teachings will be passed down from one generation to another.</p><p>As far as your question goes, I think I'll choose being respected, it's not easier than making people fear you, but at the very least you don't force people into doing what they don't want to do.</p><p>I hope this helps.</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"p3bnsl795","appParentAuthor":"golddeejay","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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| author | levinore |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["respect","fear","philosophy"],"appCategory":"respect","appTitle":"Would you prefer to be respected or feared?","appBody":"<p>Humans live and are created by God impossible without the desire to socialize. This means that socializing needs are an important requirement for everyone. With these increasingly complex conditions, it feels like socializing also needs to be done in order to strengthen friendship with other people, in order to get input or suggestions and in the context of the realization of social interaction in the community. </p><p>In the context of socializing in the community we often see that there are people who are highly respected and respected by most people, but there are also people who are ignored or ignored aka not respected by others. This phenomenon is very common and often causes discrimination in those who are not respected.</p><p>I prefer to be respected than feared, because respected people prove that the person is also respected. respectable person has a good character, he is an honest, patient, responsible and able to solve problems peacefully. a person is respected not because of his rank and degree, but because of his attitude and knowledge.</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"p3bnsl795","appParentAuthor":"golddeejay","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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| author | penauthor |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["respect","fear","philosophy"],"appCategory":"respect","appTitle":"Would you prefer to be respected or feared?","appBody":"<p>I'd prefer to be respected. Fear should be left for God. He's the only one that deserves to be feared. </p><p>Those who demand that others fear then are more times than not having issued with their psychology. It could be that they had a poor upbringing, or that they experienced some bad things happen while they were young and it influenced them to want others to be afraid of them. </p><p>I remember a story I once read about a boy who was always being molested while he was in school. He was diminutive and all history classmates, most of them actually, would bully him and he always felt bad. As he grew up, he began seeking for power. He built himself to the point where he wouldn't have to answer to anybody, had bodyguards and made sure everyone feared. However, though people feared him, they never liked him and soon they began to plan his downfall. To cut the long story short, he died of food poisoning. He was killed by one of those who had been closest to him. </p><p>Respect however is not demanded. It is earned. When you have done enough to deserve it, it will be given to you. I'd go for respect any day, any time. </p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"p3bnsl795","appParentAuthor":"golddeejay","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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| author | trucklife-family |
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| permlink | fk9mm889x |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["respect","fear","philosophy"],"appCategory":"respect","appTitle":"Would you prefer to be respected or feared?","appBody":"<p>I would of course prefer to be respected, because if you are respected by others then you know that they value you and accept you for who you are. We all strive to be accepted by others, there is this innate need to be accepted, it is with us from the time we are born. </p>\n<p>But that acceptance needs to first come from ourselves first, as does the ability to be respected . We need to have self respect and that is something that is not so often talked about. We always hear about respecting others and of course that is really important. But like love, can we really be respected if we first do not respect ourselves. </p>\n<p>To be feared means, to hold power over others, to actually take ones power away from them. Usually people who are feared believe they are respected, by others, they actually expect it. </p>\n<p>Respect is of course given freely, it is almost like a sharing of ones power, both parties really benefit. Fear is all about taking from others, taking by force and enforcing your way upon others. So professions unfortunately choose this path, they think it is the only way they will gain respect from their elders or colleagues and in some ways they do. But is that really respect.?</p>\n<p>But for me I choose respect for sure, I want to be respected for my actions and for the person I have become. </p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"p3bnsl795","appParentAuthor":"golddeejay","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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