json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["Relationship",""],"appCategory":"Relationship","appTitle":"What to do when a relative overstays and doesn't plan to leave?","appBody":"<p>The simplest way is to enjoy the saty when they are with you. I know it may sound weird but that is the reality if you want to have fund during their stay with you. Since they are your relatives and you don't want to give them an impression that you want them to leave early - so the best thing is to make them feel comfortable and enjoy the time till they are with you.</p>\n<p>There are a couple of benefits I see here - It changes your daily routine and gives you to do different things which you would have not done if they were not there. The point here I'm trying to make is that since you have relatives at home you would be planning new things like going out for dinner with, planning your weekends etc .. all exciting stuff. </p>\n<p>But whereas on the other side if they would have come and left you would have not planned anything and continued doing your daily routine stuff. So just enjoy the family time together - chit chat, cherish the memories, go out for dinner and lunches, plan a day out and just make them feel comfortable and home. </p>\n<p>Once that sense of attachment is created - you will notice that you will not want them to go and the time will come that you will feel sad that they are going. Has happened with me many a time. When relatives come we want them to leave early - but when we change that thought of them leaving early and enjoying that time with them the things changes drastically and you will notice that you will not want them to leave you and go and will be inviting them again. Finally, it family and relatives that we all care about - So anything for family. My 2 cents. </p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"f3gzaka9x","appParentAuthor":"kwadjobonsu","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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