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<a href="https://musing.io/q/hermannsol/pka2y4tgx"><b>What are some of the possible reasons why most teens don't open up to their parents?</b></a><p></p>
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<p>I know anytime something important came up and I didn't want to talk to my parents about it, it's because I was afraid they were going to blame me for it. </p> <p>For example, If one of my friends stole something and I wanted to tell my mom about it, I could pretty much be assured that she would question me about stealing as well. She might even accuse me of being a thief even though I was just coming to her for advice about it. It's not that she would think badly of me, but she would be so worried about my future that she would come up with all of these different ideas that were negative and inadvertently hurtful.</p> <p>In that way, we feel that we can't trust our parents because they are going to constantly judge us based on their own lives. I think it has to do with them having this certain perfect image of us that is difficult for us to live up to.</p> <p>We aren't mirror images of them, but some parents wish that we were.</p> <p>Being a teenager was long ago, but I still remember all of the different ways that I didn't talk to my parents about things that were important.. I didn't want to be judged harshly. Perhaps times have changed, at least a little bit.</p>
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<p><strong>Fear of being misunderstood</strong></p> <p>Due to the <strong>age gap</strong> between a parent and the child, it is understandable that there will be misunderstandings. A good classic example for this would be <strong>Online Dating</strong>. If your parent lived in the era <strong>where technology and the internet was still not invented</strong>, then it is very likely that they will not approve of dating and meeting people online. Teenagers however do not see any problem with this as it is now so common that it is now considered a norm, but for a parent it might feel dangerous and risky meeting random people on the web.</p> <p>There's also the issue of <strong>Parental Love</strong>. Teenagers often take this one for granted, but parents <strong>will do everything to protect </strong>their child. This simple act however is often misinterpreted as <strong>being too strict </strong>and thus to avoid being "<strong>restricted</strong>" in his/her actions, teens decided not to open up with their parents. </p> <p>Last but not the least is the <strong>lack of communication</strong> between the two. Most teenagers open up to their parents if they can <strong>freely</strong> say what they want to say without any fear of being judged. This is where communication between a parent and the child comes in. No matter how uncomfortable the topic is, or even though the parent doesn't fully understand how the modern world now works, because of their constant communication the child is and will likely open up.</p>
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<p>Many teens in our modern society now usually gets scared to talk to their parents concerning whatever they are facing in life that is why parents need to be friendly to their children so that they can be able to know whenever their kids are facing some problems...</p>
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