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musing-threads · @hlezama · Jan 2 '19

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@chrisrice · Jan 2 '19

Do you think now days love is becoming fake?

<p>Wow. You did an excellent job at summarizing this.</p><p>Please consider turning your Musing answers into separate posts on Steemit. I would like to Resteem this!</p>

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@hlezama · Jan 2 '19

Thanks, man. I'm thinking about doing it. Have seen other musing users do it.

👍 chrisrice

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@chrisrice · Jan 3 '19

If you do, I will definitely follow you on @steemit. 

I haven't followed you yet since most of your posts are in Spanish and I only understand English.

This particular post of yours is really good and I believe it can help a lot of people. Many people in society do not understand that the dramas in Hollywood and the entertainment industry do not portray life and healthy relationships accurately.

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